I noticed that the guys that I've been chatting with don't ask me if I know how to cook anymore. Just curious if they've finally accepted the fact that most girls dunno how to cook/ don't want to cook 🤣 or guys would rather cook themselves as a lot of guys know some basic cooking skills these days. Would love to hear yr thoughts on this.

Anyone good!?

May I learn!?

Dunno wor... U should ask my female friends abt that

I don't see anything wrong with that. Some girls just want to climb up the corporate ladder as fast as men do. However when girls do this, they're seen as not prioritising their rship. But when guys do this, they're being championed, getting all the big pats on their backs. Gotta love the double standards we have here.

How can girls not work harder when the cost of living keeps increasing and the guys they're dating keep insisting on 50-50? Not every man out there has a provider mindset, u know? When girls expect guys to pay then they're labelled as gold diggers pulak. Girls can never win, can they?

Easier said than done. If I give u 3 years, u also wouldn't be able to find a guy with a provider mindset for me especially in this kinda economy.

Why don't u try being honest with a guy? The moment they hear u're looking for a provider, they'll immediately assume u're a gold digger n run away. Sometimes I wonder if this is all caused by the girls who have been using them for free meals.

What's yr point in relation to what I said?

Well I wouldn't wanna be with men who don't like career minded women anyway. It really says a lot about them. I prefer men who would support my career n in return, I'd support his too. Back to the topic of cooking, I think the right scenario would be the couple doing meal preps TOGETHER during the weekends. It just shows both parties are willing to make the effort together.

I think that home-cooked meals by a woman is a very feminine thing... And I am not a sexist to be saying so... I would enjoy a hearty low-carb meal being made...

I can cook (and I think that both soup-making and barbecue are my favourite thing to do), but I would definitely play the role of being the handyman around the house...
I am also in favour of Ramjade's opinion and my practice is the same with the FIRE path... Seeing that we are both active in the Stock Exchange & Finance section and trading/investing...

Honestly, after going through a tough life of working since the start of my adult years, facing politics and dealing with toxic folks from work before, I honestly do not want my wife to be working at all... But hey, I am all open if she wants to...

I can never understand why people like seeing and dealing with sour folks out there... I am not the type of person to want to deal with politics and see everyone else when I can focus on myself, my well-being, and my own money... But it's just my preference... 

U mean you are going to pay for everything and give her an allowance if u marry? N also cook for her?

Did you need gay partner but play safe please!?

Monthly RM10k Im on!