Do guys still expect their partner to cook?
Do guys still expect their partner to cook?
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Jun 18 2025, 02:09 PM
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Yes. She must know how to cook. At least some dishes. If dont know, then should learn. "Dont want to cook" is a red flag in a girl for me. I myself as a male knows how to make some dishes. |
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Jun 18 2025, 02:12 PM
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QUOTE(parisiansky @ Jun 18 2025, 01:03 PM) I don't speak for most girls but I feel the need to highlight to u that there are ppl who have to OT till 8pm/ 9pm. After braving the long ass traffic jams, it'd be around 10pm by the time they reach home. These ppl are probably too mentally/ physically exhausted to cook anything. It's not that they don't wanna make an effort to cook. It's just that work can be extremely draining sometimes. Yes there are those who work like that.But you can try to cook once a while during weekends and holidays. This post has been edited by Cubalagi: Jun 18 2025, 02:12 PM |
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Jun 19 2025, 01:06 PM
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QUOTE(parisiansky @ Jun 18 2025, 06:07 PM) I don't see anything wrong with that. Some girls just want to climb up the corporate ladder as fast as men do. However when girls do this, they're seen as not prioritising their rship. But when guys do this, they're being championed, getting all the big pats on their backs. Gotta love the double standards we have here. Girls value guys with high income much more than guys value girls with high income.A high income woman normally will look for a guy who is higher income than her or at least about the same level. There are exceptions but those are rare. A high income guy normally wont care what a girl income is. Its even normal to date much lower income girls. |
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Jun 19 2025, 04:33 PM
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QUOTE(parisiansky @ Jun 19 2025, 01:11 PM) You were complaining about "double standards".The double standard exist because thats what society wants. The vast majority of women consider a high income man as highly desirable. Hence a man who works hard and earn high income is lauded. The other half of society, being men, doesnt really consider a high income woman as being extra desirable. Its probably at most "ok" and to some maybe even a red flag. Men will probably prefer nice boobs or other things vs high income. |
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Jun 20 2025, 10:19 AM
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QUOTE(Ramjade @ Jun 20 2025, 07:29 AM) If she can cook it's a bonus. If she cannot cook it's ok. But for me the man needs to be the provider. U mean you are going to pay for everything and give her an allowance if u marry? N also cook for her?I aim for FAT FIRE and I am bringing her along on it. Up to her if she wants to continue working. I know I don't want. Being FIRE especially FAT FIRE give you options to work or live off one income or totally stop working. This post has been edited by Cubalagi: Jun 20 2025, 10:20 AM |
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