Disclaimer:
this article is not aimed at men who are conscious and willing to spend on their partner(s).

women are getting more brainwashed by consumerism
imagine themselves to be a princess
they deserved to be pamper and satisfied
this phenomenon is not natural
but a way for consumerism to exert a control

In the 80s era
western starts the propaganda
saying beauty is the capital!
encourage them to buy branded products and follow the trend
till the 21st century
the consumerism spreads till China
the message is a weapon to control the masses
hence a lot of bombs being dropped
one of the ways is meaningful-day celebration
from white valentine to goddess day...
...the first cup of milk tea in autumn
these days are designed precisely and glamorously

At first
the propaganda is equally spread among men and women
but soon realizing
men are not easily hooked
hence, women became the main focus instead
increasing the sales day and advertising
they equate putting effort = spending money on women
slowing increasing the standard of these meaningful days

the image of the princess has been amplified
they start another bomb
being spent onto, means being loved as a woman
eventhough women start to willingly spend on themselves
but the limitation of an average woman income
It makes the tactic shifts to men side
they drop the massive bombs
men are responsible to raise family
women are responsible to look pretty
they shift the willingness of spending onto men
If you love her, you should send gifts
spending onto her it's a love language
in order to seek female validation, men start to do so
hence the loop between men and women has already started

It's a conspiracy
but men and women couldn't help themselves
In the eyes of it
an average woman has been elevated to a princess
an average man has been demoted to a loser
the inequality artificial separation between both genders
hence women think they deserve to be treated properly in material sense
their mating standards have become increasingly high
only tall rich handsome one-package- guy are their ideal
but these top tier men don't even treat these women seriously
they want them for short gratification
hence a fast car driver, could influence women mating perspective
and their peer pressure starts kicking in
the butterfly effect of "eyes high hands low"
according to the research in China
there are over 100 million amois they are over 30s and still single
this is eye opening and frightening at the same time

an average man has no place in an average woman heart
the big environment encourages women should feel more independent
but in an unseen way, it shapes them to be more self centered
fantasizing material pursuits that do not match their own reality...