If I recalled correctly, you did once said that you have insecurities to start family or something of that sort.  You worry about your ability to provide for them and their future.  Assuming my recollection is correct, how do you feel now after the wonderful child comes out?  How does that change your perception or insecurities/worries?

Children are entertainment . Like television. Got comedy , love story , sometime the plot make you angry, some time got horror and suspense , drama.. a lot of drama (mine was 2 girl😅)  action scene .. and dont forget the plot twist 😆

from weird random milo recepies
from jimmyjoon to jimmyx
to kahwin
to bring wife go makan2 and horiday
to got anak d

congrats ts happy for u

u spend the given angpow? i save it for my child future, that's why i never mention about using angpows. if your wife can breast feed/ pump breast milk...  eventually you save at least 60% to 90% of milk powder and bottle cost for the 1st year depends how rajin is your wife.

    at times your milk too thick/ heaty cause difficult to pass stool as recommended mixture ratio is 1:1, i mix 0.8:1 milk powder to water ratio.  bulk purchase really save alot but at the same time planning is important when your child go thru a transition. else you end up lots of extra milk powder and diapers.

  confinement RM6888 you hire a confinement lady? then you miss out the cost of food, cost spend on confinement lady's needs, 1 month's herbs soup ingredients and misc.... last time my wife confinement RM9k++ in confinement center... ALL IN!

Back then, I struggled with insecurities and anxiety. My financial situation wasn’t great and deep down the real issue was my lack of self-confidence, partly due to several failed long distance relationships (honestly, I wouldn’t even call them real relationships to begin with).
At one point, I had decided not to get married or start a family.
But seeing my siblings with their children, experiencing their joy and fulfillment made me reconsider. Slowly, I chose to walk this path.
Now, from dating > proposing > registering our marriage > conceiving > my own family, each step has filled those voids in my heart. These moments even surpass the joy I once found in photography (my current second greatest passion).
Of course, I still carry some worries, financial stability, health concerns but the smile of my baby boy lifts me greater height. For me, money will never be enough. I value my time with my family over career or wealth. That’s life and real success for me.
2 girls, probably many drama, jealousy, small fighting, etc lol

Employed M40, definitely not enough use.
Last year my pc psu shortage, pc total damage, luckily got 2 cores wife laptop with upgraded 8>12gb ram, very slow but still can play dota 2 at very low setting with possible disabled all things, run lightroom/photoshop/photo editing like snail.
I think almost a year, no budget to build new desktop pc.   




RM6888 Confinement in year 2023, Penang Island. 
After many surveying, this is the best and great hospitality, cleanliness, security, caring, good & healthy foods for mother, etc, and cheap.
Preparation:
- Chinese herbal soup, free by my grandmother & mother.
Delivery:
- RM30-50 if not mistaken, at Penang General Hospital (government)

Post Delivery:
- RM6888 maternal care (in year 2023),
- Government clinic, mother & baby checkup and vaccines, free (first time blue/pink record book about RM10 if not mistaken)
- My baby had jaundice for 1 short week, free block check at government clinic

During her confinement period, my wife told me heard few mothers say loudly, went to private hospital, C-section costs RM20k+, normal delivery RM10k+, Private pediatrician 1 visit RM60-100+, excluding any needle/vaccines. 
I know private care is far superior, but going to government hospital is definitely more cost-effective and easier on the wallet.

RM6888 confinement in year 2023 at Penang Island. Confinement ladies is experienced and well trained, cleanliness, security (baby monitor cctv can view anywhere), healthy foods/drink, 5 nutritious meal per day, free flow drink and of course the herbal bath & soup for mother. Even got the KKM registered doctor come to practical training the mother how to take care of the baby / nursery classes for free.
Year 2025, lowest package RM8299

Why did you go to Carnation near island Hospital? There's a branch near your house at Island Glades right? IINM you stay in Island Glades, no?

One year of fatherhood, ask me anything.
Based in Penang, Malaysia.

I'll reply when feel free.

wtf confinement only 6888? your in law or parents take care of it ar

bro
confinement 6888 consider average

the wise would be spent less on delivery
spent luxurious on confinement/recovery

how many times you piap in a week now?

oh yes thats why i was shocked seeing the number of 6888. here in puchong at least 17888