i found out bcoz i use whatsapp pc to monitor her chats - call me crazy stalker but knowing her past (she told me she was unhappily married with someone but remained faithful. i went to dig out previous chats, saw she was messaging guys, even got once said she took pregnancy pill already to another guy)

then when im monitoring , i realize every few months this ex dude will try to ask her out, sometimes she layan and say go drink teatime or something. but strictly teatime only because i realize the timing is just less than 1 hour , unles the guy can drink tea and pancut within 1 hour.

i got drop hints about my boundaries, like i tell her "my buddy found out his gf been meeting her ex, i told my buddy just pump n dump her bcoz she not worth it"
then she just say haha yalor .


but dun even bother to take action and block the ex.

so let me tell u guys, dun ever trust women 100%.... esp when her circle of friends also got such ppl (her close friend married to good husband who lets her become housewife , but she got a bf in china and she regularly flies there to meet up with him)
when i told her that her friend is not a good person, she raged and said why should i judge her friend, she has her own reasons, bla bla her friend needs her husband for financial support but maybe he is not good in bed, so she had to find someone to satisfy her.

im like, isnt this the very definition of a b1tch, u let 1 guy support u while u go let other guy piap u, if u were a proper woman u would have divorced the husband and go ask the piapping guy to support u. sometimes i feel damn sad, like imagine youre the husband having dinner with her friends, and everyone there knows u r green hatted but u r like a dumbass, trying to please her friends and all.. i dun wanna be like that person.

This post has been edited by Knnbuccb: May 8 2025, 05:12 PM

if you're a control freak, it's best you stay single

if her parents also never control her like that thn what makes you can control her like that?
it only proves that you're insecure

most parents woudnt approve of how she dress lol, her parents passed away when she was young, so i think she has some issues from there. if her parents are still alive i think they would disapprove lol.



This post has been edited by Knnbuccb: May 8 2025, 05:10 PM

i think this picture applies here for everybody to see

lmao if she dress like photo on left id be ok. that clothing doesnt reveal anything , not even cleavage, why would someone not be ok with it.
she wears makeup daily she never leaves home without it, she even topup her lipstick before meeting people male or female, i dun even bother.

This post has been edited by Knnbuccb: May 8 2025, 05:18 PM

i wonder if ppl replying her got waifu or gf, or thye just foreveralone wishing they have one.... it's like before i got waifu or gf i also feel like women very kesian, should be allowed to have multiple husbands or bf. till i understood the reality of it....

I think she can't tell the difference between classy sexy n slutty sexy. Immature little girls will always ops for the latter. Honestly I don't think she's marriage material at all based on her response towards yr remarks abt her dressing. If she can't even handle a small conflict like this, how is she gonna handle more serious matters in yr marriage? Also, is she even a good role model for yr future children?

If I were u, I'd dump her n look for someone who's more mature and actually cares my feelings.

damn, u r actually same age as her, but u sound much more mature

actually , fk it, youre right, why i dun just dump her. seriously too many red flags, that ive opened threads few times.

my ex gf i never had to monitor her chats before etc, because she gave that aura of trust.

this one, she tells me to trust her, etc etc, but when i monitor the chats, it seems diff from what she tells me. she got ask me, whether i went to budget hotel with my ex before, i said yes, then she got upset she said i should have just lied and denied it no matter what. and then i understood how she deals with things..... all lies are truths, until the real truth is admitted.

maybe it's just karma for me breaking up with my ex who is waifu material but I just lost feelings for her....

This post has been edited by Knnbuccb: May 8 2025, 05:24 PM

What??? I really thought she was 23 or 25 🤣🤣🤣 Omg seriously, you can't be with this walking red flag who obviously has Peter Pan syndrome. You deserve better la.

As for yr ex, don't blame yourself for leaving her. Things happened for a reason.

omg thank you

from time to time, i think back and feel guilty about wasting her time.

we had a long relationship , and few years into it i realized it was not working out but i kept delaying the breakup because i wanted to see if we can still save it...

we broke up amicably, but i really feel guilty from time to time, when i think back, i realize she was a nice person but somehow i lost the feeling over time.. if i had just married her , i wouldnt be having all this thoughts like now being insecure and shit because she really didnt give me reasons to feel insecure.

but thank you, i rmbr when i told ppl my story mst women kept blaming me for wasting her time.

This post has been edited by Knnbuccb: May 8 2025, 05:40 PM

How is it considered wasting her time when u were making the effort to save the relationship? You'd be the bad guy if u kept stringing her along just coz u were afraid to be lonely.

ts talk sexy subject but no drillz, riport 9 you.

Zaman sekarang semua banyak kuda atensi.. anyway still waiting for some drilz or at least example of what is too revealing to wear

She know how to dress herself well

TS should embrace it. Later graduate to swinging.

No policing, only tell waifu to take care, don accidentally reveal

Ayam came in, expecting Ukeke tered

Ayam has disappointed

Wear sexily, but not loosely.

Loose, like T shirt bend down ZG kaokao, those is kasi freebie makan.

Sexy, like open back or cleavage, but firmly hold and protected, that's class.

Not to show i tau bebanyak or sedikit or bullshittos, but have a betina that know how to dress and have a betina that dress how she knows is two entirely different matter.

Is this the same ccp woman from last time? Tempted to put the Don’t trust chyna meme right now…

She wear bikini @ beach? You bust a blood vessel? 😆

Know her well before settling. If you know she's the type to wear revealing/sexy, don't pull the trigger. Look elsewhere.

If you can accept/pretend to accept when gf, don't force when waifu...