yes, last time i told her directly, she looks like "someone who works here" because we were parking at a red light district , she bend down to pick up some stuff from the car boot....

then she got mad and said how can i say that. i told her, u tell me, now u bend down abit to pick up something on the restaurant table (not floor ya, table) and u see how people react, u dare? plus she was the one who encouraged me to speak my mind...

then she got mad, told me why should she do that, and told me she dun need to show her tits and pussy, she also gets attention from guys. then i said ya la, everyone gives u attention because they think youre a slut lol

i will ask her about the daughter thing... i reserve that as my last bullet...

btw nowadays some ppl think the more skin they show the more modern and civilized they are...lmao, tell me youre not classy without telling me youre not classy.

even celebs who dress revealingly they have ways to minimize risk of wardrobe malfunction.

This post has been edited by Knnbuccb: May 8 2025, 04:28 PM

Is this alternate universe k?

3 pages and nobody angry no drilzz provided 😜

i have no problem because i cant tell someone else's waifu how to dress

if my own waifu, i can tell her i dont like, if she likes then should have got another guy who is happy to show her off.

in fact, i got ask her, why not she go without underwear and dress in short skirt, then i will just be a cuck and enjoy other people's reactions. dont do it halfway, wear short but inside wear underwear lol macam potong stim either u go big or go hom

no foto, no komen

Must show deep V, wear mini skirt~~~

Yes. Must wear short short and revealing because if you don’t wear now when are you going to wear it? 40+? Ewww at that time you wear it I also no kick la.

Got nice body then flaunt it la when young. The dumbest thing to do is to worry about others or your bf’s insecurities.

Even men go to the gym with the goal of looking buff la.

It's okay as long as she is not unclothed.

why are you playing dress-up with your left hand?

plot twist what if waifu approaching 40s ....

oh btw, if both of us dont worry about each other's insecurities

then i might as well go meet up with new amoi every night... i just tell her im having a drink with amoi... technically not something i cant do right? why? insecure much?

btw it's also quite strange, im told to break off contact with an ex (crazy woman who kept coming after me , sending letters to my house after i blocked her on phone, email etc)

but she can secretly msg her ex (whom she had a fling with while she was still with someone else) and schedule meetups behind my back...................

this kind of women , she keep asking to marry her but ayam gut feeling telling me so many red flags...

This post has been edited by Knnbuccb: May 8 2025, 04:47 PM

kesian, forever alone complain imaginary girl dating...

showing undies? nothing sexy, thats just not proper dressing

showing a little boobie cleavage? thats sexy (only if uve got a nice figure)

too revealing? as much as i enjoy looking at, sorry youre a slut, no matter how those lustful ah pek, sorhai teenager and slut bitch trying to normalise it, slutty is still slutty , nothing to do with modern world, open minded or blablabla

you think it is free shows.

she will think it as her freedom.

To be civil, it is a matter of different opinions.

Sometimes, it takes time to change a person views.

If you value her, take the time to change her views.

In relationship, it takes times to get things work.

if she doesn't care about ur feelings when dressing, u guys aint ready for marriage yet..

same with ur life choices...

do i go around talking to single females or having meals 1:1 with them? no i don't anymore unless there is a reason she is comfortable with..

agree
too revealing, even blackpink stars know more modesty ... they also try to ensure they dont have nipslip or pantyslip etc

i duno , seems like a lot of cucks here leh, it's like im in the wrong... maybe i from old generation like u?
but , im a high keras male, if i go out , i dun wan to be seen with some slutty looking person ... it doesnt suit my image

and she also the one who told me, clothes maketh a man, so maybe i should tell her, if u dress like a slut and ppl think youre a slut, can u blame them.
freedom got boundaries one. not everything youre free to do should be done.

if i like to curse apa lanchow etc it is my freedom also...
but will she like it?

agree. i only marry someone who will take my views seriously.

like if we dont see eye to eye on this basic thing, it means we dont suit each other for marriage, maybe if piap2 can la.

but problem is she keep asking me for marriage..... when she isnt marriage material. lol.

girls like to tie down high quality guys, but they never want to be the high quality woman who deserves the high quality guy

IMO let her feel good about herself before she grows old. I don't think her intention is to attract other males unless proven otherwise. Those who claimed that it's a respect thing is definitely insecure lol - it's not like she went out and make out with people randomly.

There's this trend where girls take revealing photos of themselves (not nude) when they are young so that they can preserve their "best look" in the form of photos.

Now if she wears that while going out with other male friends, then it might be a problem but if she truly has no bad intention she would probably choose to wear less revealing clothes.

I see no issue with her asking you to break off contact with a crazy ex lol - who would want to deal with a crazy ex?

As for the secret msg part, I am not sure why you guys are still together? Have you set a proper boundary where you explained (not ultimatum) that you are uncomfortable with her doing that and to stop doing that?

If she disrespects your boundary repeatedly, then it's time to say goodbye lol.

no problem

my wifey got good feature but she dun wear reveal skin type

tight clothes, wont show panty line or camel toe, or reveal nipples, rare occasion top cleavage lol

quite classy, imagine tight top and tight jeans, or skirt

if u got it then flaunt it la

Just say slut.

she might not like.

but she might bear with it.

I am not saying you should tolerate her views.

But dont make it breakup reason.

This, only birgin unker in lowgat want their spouse to dress in full black dress covering head to toe