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Post didn't mentioned does she has a job or not.

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This post has been edited by ZlkOk: May 2 2025, 07:28 PM

in short

pepek gatal liao

many red flags:
- complain no yearly vacation
-unsecure affected by social media
- envious of other people's happiness and want what they have
- What does she bring to the table ?

Beach

Ungrateful

Always got something to complain about, always got something to be dissatisfied with.

stupid wife! fark off la

【Poverty Is Stealing Our Love】


I think the laziness of the girl is stealing of her love.
How can she didn't think also contribute financially to the family to upgrade their life?

You meant for her to fark off to get her own celery?

No kids yet, wife can go work
Stay home for what
Equality right?

kek 7k also think cant survive, meaning expenses are out of control

17k pun tak cukup la like that

Some comment wrote "I let him f**k me."

before you want to climb, you must be brave

then go to work la.
ungrateful woman.

Wife red flag

browse too much soc med :X it affects one's mental health seeing others sooo happy

Wait a minute. They have no kids? And the wife is a what?

kek, not working, spend whole time on socmed, set unrealistic expectations.

7k salary without kids, cant even go to vacation? seriously?

7k household income really not enough la in klang valley. kecian the husband green hat soon.

Ni mesti overspend one. The. Wondering why until now still cannot buy BMW.

drill of wife pls

is this china or MY?

30 yrs old and married. Good luck trying to get a rich man. Maybe next life

Why she not working? why the husband so passive never fuark kau her?

"Sometimes, when I see friends posting photos of family vacations or their new houses and cars, I blame myself—why can’t I be content like them?"

The irony, i kenot.

Mental.. some wimmenz really have this pattern including my wife.

- cos next door ah lian just wented japan
- cos sis n bro post go everywhere everyday
- cos mum and dad compare
- her cibai

Anonymous facebook page, no drill

this is Malaysian chinese

husband will get cuck soon

if only wife do anything beside staring socmed...

That what credit card for

this beach should just dai for good

Cerai je this cb busuk

This post has been edited by JoeK: May 2 2025, 04:17 PM

"But I’ve started to wonder—can love really overcome reality?"

so whats her solution? become chicken la

It’s on the internet so it must be true

kalau bodo memang tak cukup.
kalau income kecik, makan pun beragak-agak

A typical gold digger type of mindset. Red flags all around. If you are the husband and in this situation better think of your future if you still want to be with this digger.

Is she working? Two of them dont need housewife, go contribute to household income instead of becoming deadweight

Sounds like bot article design to draw attention. Even the most selfish person know not to air their dirty laundry like this.

That some effort in translating tho

time for the husband to find m wife... read today at k... another jobless dude gets married and got 1 kid already while doing grab driver

what is her parent like? you can see the pattern of the dotter from her mother

Is this the so called Trad wife? Husband look for money, she take care of home? Nowadays single income not enough. Go out and look for job bitch.

wimmin will always overthink, but this type of level. haih

so many red flag, hope he get out of this soon to be toxic relationship , or at least get a better job to cover her overthinking


i feel so much pain when the husband say - I’ve tried my best. At least this job is stable, there will be always , there will be always unlucky and lucky


at least the wife should get a job ?


btw , starting family below 10k would be challenging. Everything will increase after 5 years or so.


Now kid at 20-29 already earning 5k-10k already

Salary Statement (in RM)
Salary: 7000.00
Bonus: 0.00
Net Salary: 5907.50



that woman is cancer

liddat also complain?

Let me guess, house loan sudah 3500?

human, when there is already someone to compare sure will make noice
compare house, car, vacation, belongings, never ending
lucky no kid yet
better split now for the good sake of ur husband and urself
money is never enough for greed and selfish

in her brain the logical conclusion is divorce no choice

Title correction:
Poverty (mindset) is stealing the wife's love of her husband

Now time of looming global recession she wants the husband to go look for unstable jobs? Gila.

Brother need to change wife instead of job.

Waifu no work ke or got?

Housing loan repayment >30% of income is financially stretched. If have life and medical insurance, net disposable income is further stretched.

If wife is pretty, just waiting for 1 well off guy come and sure let the husband wear green hat

husband should find a better wife instead

“ Sometimes, when I see friends posting photos of family vacations or their new houses and cars, I blame myself—why can’t I be content like them?”

this is the problem
jealousy

Wat she bring to the table? Kaki kangkang la bro. While being salted fish

The post didn't mentioned

Problem with the woman.

Bitch didn't even contribute kek

it's pretty reasonable why she think like that. In /k 20k is the standard for living wage. The husband only earning barely 1/3 of the standard

overthink still ok, but when the blaming starts......

Wifu need to work too leh

rely solely on husband punya 7k salary mesti tak cukup lah, he sudah bayar the housing loan and car loan

Wife working or not.

If working 7k+7k should be comfortable. Can go holiday within Asia once a year.

Ehh I never went to overseas vacation at all, cuti cuti Malaysia only.

To Hatyai consider oversea?

Time for her to log off and go out to work

social media. i blame on social. she must be jealous seeing people or her friends bercuti sana sini, ada wang lebih, makan besar. she need to know, some people got it easy, some got it hard. its not the same for everyone. each got their own struggle.

plus ada yang suka 'show off' tapi hutang sana sini...

macam tarak

if working probably household income ada RM10k+, should be comfortable without children

Sound like Adeline thick lips aunty.

This kind of women will alwiz do comparison and forever will not satisfy one.

Better let her go.

someone replied on that post, asking the same question as you.
a dude reply: she busy posting at socmed, lol

Ok

and also she should be coming from a middle class/middle-upper class family or environment so her friends and family should be of similar class also, so the things that she see on her socmed is full of posts of her friends and family with high incomes and enjoying their lives, while she have to 'suffer' with her husband and she will feel unfair and start to compare

if her friends/family have similar salaries like her husband rm7k then she wont see so many of those travelling, eating expensive foods etc posts on her socmed

Me and my wife combine nearly 40k

Also still poor as fck.

Can't imagine 7k

But the wife better be pretty to demand so much.. else.. 14th floor only la..

Yea
She needs bad boys to spoil her. She settle down with a nice guy too early

Jobless but then complained about people with stable job with decent salary.

New level of stupidity.

100k also not enough actually
That's life

Wait what??

Friend post vacay, new house and cars is equivalent to dark clouds over her head????

Some women are fear of instability. Speaking from my bad experience with sister and mother, every year without a fail always say instability stuff.


In this case she concern unstable situation that knowing well 7k is barely enough to make end meets.

Must be grateful..kenot la like this salary 50k also later compare life with 100k salary, then compare life with 200k salary..in the end,it doesnt even matter cuz already dead she might go to hell .

Lol, I tell your wife then you know 😅

I see

My opinion:

Not everyone will go through hard time with their spouse.

I bet she is the one finishing his money or root cause of all his unnecessary commitments.

shes not wrong to have those expectations at 30 tbh. most of it are kinda normal things to think about when you reach that age. Moreover, if they are planning to have kids.

its easy to ask her not to compare with whats on social media, but that is the norm these days anyways. everyone is comparing or being influenced by what we see online on some way, shape or form.

only thing I would say is she should also be working to contribute to the household income and alleviate some of the husbands burden.

Meanwhile Biforti breed like rabbit

Well then it's better for the woman to leave the husband then. She's not adding much value to the family except getting BYD.

But this is the sad reality of today's society.

Also bear in mind the woman is already age 30. Any rich man will probably just use her for a fun time. Besides BYD, really what else can she offer?

I though women menopause at 40 years old at least and then transform into a Karen

30 year old is what pause?

Is she even working? How about she contribute something instead of depending on her husband?

Regret getting married already in 2 years time. Next 10 years going to be real shaky marriage.

Now everywhere jobs are very hard to come by. If suddenly husband gets retrenched how? 14th floor? Divorce?
Even worst if your children grows up to be strawberries in future and abandon you for their own survival?

It's going to be a norm from now on for current generation.

Those who are still not married are really the wise people around.

i dont get why people are clowning on her. i have had talks with my friends around literally the same topics.

at least she is honest with herself. no blame on the guy as well, its not easy in todays society with all the expectations that has been put on us. what he is giving her is what the majority of men can provide. her views have just been distorted by social media.

she is having buyers remorse after realizing she might have made a mistake.

Wife incum brapa?

Or just kangkang at home?

That's y ktards Foreveralone alone.


Ktards 20k incum did not fall into marriage trap

Why why Tell me why
夜會令禁忌分解
引致淑女暗裏也想變壞
Why why Tell me why
沒有辦法做乖乖

Yes people fail to realize, showing off and 冲 is very easy. Just swipe card and do instalment. Yet posting everything on IG makes you a shining star.

Anyway, enjoy your Friday...Hope the husband enjoys his Friday night also....Wish him all the best.

gold digger will divorce.

That's why stay away from entitled, demanding, materialistic women. The smarter and the prettier they are the more likely they will be like that.

kalau duduk 2 orang sewa rumah sampai RM 2k mmg la tak cukup.

U think v /k bodo?

Then she has to wake up to reality to see that her marriage isn’t that bad after all, and that 99% of social media are fake. This type of woman will never be satisfied no matter how much the husband earns. Better for them to break it off now than later.

Men earn less than 20k pls don't bother find wife.

When married everything nice and dreamy. Once the honeymoon wears off you are left with the mundane reality, It hits people like a drug withdrawal symptom. Sometimes it feels like the relationship becomes meaningless. Sometimes having a child gives purpose to the union, sometimes that pushes it off the brink. Its really complex