Well, if I am not mistaken, your grandfather came from India and married a Malay. Since then, all his lineage also qualified as Malay, by some unorthodox definition only found in this country, including you. So, please curse your grand father and his descendants as well for taking away something from the Malays and diluting the Malay's inheritance. If he had stayed put in India, there would be more to go around between the native Malays.