Sorry for intruding, but any girl who claims to be emo, and being proud is clearly shows an undeveloped sense of identity, choosing to be associated with some pop alternative culture to reinforce their own sense of self worth and give their own life meaning. Odd.

If one defines her own existence by what she wears and what she likes, and not for a higher level of reasoning for her interests, then I'm sad to say your level of thinking still needs work.