Im now 39 years old. Married with 2 kids. Father and mother died. Saving below 5k. No house. Plan to move to my late mother house after retirement which is at kampung.

Drive an old vios which is zero debt. Income still four figures. Wife not working. To say that i figured out life is too much but I believe everyone got their rezeki figured by God. Of course you have to work for it but you have to be grateful on what you got now. You are doing you and you should not feel pressured by others on how to live your life.

As long as you got roof over your head and food on the table you should be ok. Don't worry too much.