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SUSMr Mercedes
post Apr 30 2025, 02:55 PM

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QUOTE(luckyMan99 @ Apr 16 2025, 09:07 AM)
I've been talking to this girl for almost 3 months now. I think the progress is okay. We text and call every day. I can tell she's interested, as she spends a lot of time trying to get to know me and sometimes even says that I don't care about her enough, or I'm not taking enough initiative . On my end, I text her whenever I'm free, tell her I miss her, and generally try to show that I care.
Here's the problem: around the 1-month mark, I started asking her out.
The first time, she said she would arrange a time for me. She gave me a time but later canceled due to her own reason.
The second time, I asked her out during a weekday. She said she was busy but didn’t propose a new time.
The third time, I asked her again. She said she was busy with family, but once again didn’t suggest an alternative.

During our day-to-day conversations, I can tell that she’s genuinely busy. But this is starting to make me think maybe she’s not really eager to go out with me?
What should I do?
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You've been talking for almost 3 months, but haven't met even once?

I mean even if she's busy, surely she'd have 1-2 hours of her time to catch lunch or dinner right?

I don't think she's interested.

 

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