Moral of the story
talk less, listen more

ask and find out as much as you can from her, then resonate what she say back at her.

the goal is to sell yourself to her, and how can you sell if you don't know what she wants, who she is, what she is looking for?

selling insurance same... i don't come and introduce what amazing products i have. i find out what matters to you -- your health, your parent's health, your children's education.. then i propose a plan that suits your needs... not sell you amajing investment plan that gives you 20% return over 30 years.

You go across to Singapore and see. Slowly tunggu. Malaysian ladies are getting a good deal and they just expect it to be the norm.

Hello, ladies talk about equality and all, yet have such expectations. Can’t have it both ways.

Our generosity and chivalry is not the norm. Our parents raised us well so don’t take it for granted.

It is fine and well, until women weaponize this against men, esp in working and professional environment preaching equality.

I don’t believe in equality simply because women is superior. As a man I can’t give birth.

You got the right mindset, you can’t control the lady’s mind. So do your best.

You are playing a role in your kid’s life.

What your ex wife does to you, doesn’t change your character. She’s a freeloader and you’re generous. And she take advantage of that generosity. You do it for the kid so that kid is raised well.

Don’t let assholes like me in the world change who you are. There’s just too many assholes out there.