Its just life experience, move on.

You already identified what you did wrong.

U liked her too much, hence invested too much emotions that you cant control. As a result Bla bla too much abt yourself. Boring and a turn off for a girl who is not yet into you. Gave vibe that you are trying too hard, desperate and of lower value than her. Always check your emotions.

Spontaneous dates can be ok actually. We hv to take what we can sometimes. But dont be afraid to say no.

Attracting women is like a game. Thats why some ppl use the term "player" for a guy who is good at it.

And you will get much better results if you dont take it too seriously.

What does AA mean?

Btw dating is abt marketing/sales. Otherwise, might as well just pass resume.

Ah..never heard of the term b4. Thanks.

And same here, I always pay. Even when the girl offers to pay and i know it will be our first and last date. I will laugh it off and tell her say dont worry about it.

But my first dates are not fancy. I will avoid dinner.
(unless no other choice). And I never pick the girls up on first date. So its a way of thanking her of putting the effort to come.

This post has been edited by Cubalagi: Apr 19 2025, 08:56 AM