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>40 years old. Where to find new bf/gf?
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pkn_jet
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Aug 18 2025, 03:49 PM
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i have also recently got divorced and back on market. And i'm my late 30s, no kids. People say men age grow like fine wine but i do not agree entirely.
I do not prefer 20s girl, so the choices would be limited to 30-35, and women in this category are mostly either married or taken, hence our choices became smaller and smaller.
What we looking for is a companion to grow old and spend daily time together, but it seems not so easy to find the "right one" nowadays.
This post has been edited by pkn_jet: Aug 18 2025, 03:50 PM
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pkn_jet
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Aug 21 2025, 09:34 PM
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QUOTE(Cubalagi @ Aug 19 2025, 08:39 PM) Not all wines becomes vintage. Some just become vinegar. To make vintage wine need careful process.
For men is the same. To be attractive need work.
Anyway welcome to the club 😆 late 30s mean still early vintage. U should start dating girls between 25-30 ideally. Girls range between 25-30 seems abit of a gap for me. I should not be stubborn and explore more options. Anyway, still enjoying my single life now and healing, so just let it be and flow for now.
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pkn_jet
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Aug 23 2025, 11:34 AM
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QUOTE(Cubalagi @ Aug 22 2025, 11:34 AM) One of the best healing is to be dating girls hotter than your ex-wife. More likely hotter when they are 10 years younger than ur ex. And i say date, not marriage. You should be taking your own sweet time to tie the knot with anyone. Yes, you may have the option to date hotter girls - but don't forget we as a men, we are also an option for them too. Is not easy to date hot girls nowadays. Said is easier than done.
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