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kesvani
post Mar 12 2025, 11:21 PM

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TS. You still got meet her as friends?

Mine also almost one year no longer in contact but still keep remembering her. I can contact her if want to but i respect her decisions to forget me. I want to delete all our photos and videos but scare because once delete it, i afraid will no longer have photo of us as memories. Just hoping my current wont find where i hide the photos. Having sex few times with her make it worse i guess.



QUOTE(nihility @ Mar 12 2025, 10:03 PM)
1 cinema outing = 13 years of time, you better go reflect on yourself.

If you bring this assessment into other aspect of life, you are going to get similar miserable result.
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Its the memories that count and their relationship also not just 1 cinema outing but also talk few times more

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kesvani
post Mar 13 2025, 11:00 PM

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QUOTE(Mahendran90 @ Mar 13 2025, 10:32 AM)
I haven't. But I saw eating food at the food court one day she has two children now. I saw  her with her children I got weird feelings I didn't say but she looked at me a smiled. Maybe still recognize me after many years. I really hope she forgot about me and our old memories. Still haunts me the old memories good times we had in cinema, in the park night out drinking coffee.Now she has husband and children. Feels awkward to talk to her. But after I deleted her photos I feel better not to look at her picture all the time. Difficult really still have mental pictures of her in my mind
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No need to treat it as haunt.Just treat as one of the sweet memories you experience. Even though i will most likely will marry GF/EX1 but in my hearty one day few years or decade i could meet EX2 again.

Let us both hope we can meet them again when age 40 or 50 or 60 since we only few years old apart since i also 37 only
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post Mar 26 2025, 12:07 AM

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QUOTE(raymondwong1808 @ Mar 25 2025, 10:19 AM)
Bro. Gets over it. This incident happened 10+ years ago. Like many said, lots of fish in the sea, just because the fish you like ran away doesn't mean you are a loser for life.

And again, the thing happened between you and the girl you can considered it a normal friend outing. Don't let the outing (or you called it as DATE) to ruin your life any more. It is ok to feel down for a short time, but 10+ years and still stuck in this is way too long...
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Feel for him. Not easy to forget when you feel click with someone and she initially also feel the same.I my self wonder how long will it take to remove EX2 from my mind or at atleast till her present in my mind will not have any affect on me and just as true memories only

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