Most of the time, if the girl doesn't even offer to pay and keep silently that could mean she's just riding you for a fee meal. Hence, there's no need to spend too much money on the first date assuming you won't be able to see her again.

but exceptionally, if you want to visit a place that you haven't tried or you're going to a regular food or bar that isn't costly, why not asking her to join along? That's your original intention of wanting to go

however, some guys will overspend on a date thinking to be able to hook up with her eventually and then turned sour grap when things didn't go along his expectation. I will say this is the worst scenario

There's no obligation for the guy topay if the conversation sucks. I've met some girls who purely used me for dinner and I've also met some very open minded females, after been with few hundreds females offline on a date, I can justify where is the smp standing

This post has been edited by -mystery-: Apr 8 2025, 11:06 PM

nowadays even enter a marriage, there's no guarantee of sex in return lah. There are some old mindset guys who think just because I spent X amount of money or time on a girl, I must get a certain amount of return

Sadly, relationships are not business in black and white sense