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MasBoleh!
post Feb 26 2025, 10:51 AM

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QUOTE(kelvinfixx @ Feb 26 2025, 08:22 AM)
Most have this problem
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I will agree with this. I will consider myself as socially awkward too

QUOTE(NinG @ Feb 26 2025, 09:01 AM)
TS, if you want to change of pace, why not start with some society activities first? Let yourself slowly adapt to the changes, be more pro-active, meeting new people, busy events, and step out from your comfort zone.
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This.

TS, you need to have a gradually changes in your environment, you cannot straight away start applying such jobs that needed a lot of human interactions. After awhile, you will feel drained.

So you slowly join social activities, slowly adapt and gauge your enegy level. If you feel like you are at the stage where you can social fine then go ahead

QUOTE(cocomaru @ Feb 26 2025, 09:35 AM)
Yes, I think for the most part I just feel very lonely

I have always been like this, but when I was younger I was happier..until around 27 or 28, I start feeling uneasy because of my work

Then recently something happened, and I decide that I'm done...like I really needed a change.

Thank you so much for the advice, ning.
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Many people feel lonely too. It's a pandemic.

Some told me they join religion activities for this. And one guy told me, we needed to have contact and interact with people to curb the loneliness in our mind. So, he went and join jujutsu classes. Every week, he will have sufficient interaction and contact with other humans, and he feel good after that. You can consider this

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MasBoleh!
post Feb 26 2025, 02:19 PM

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QUOTE(cocomaru @ Feb 26 2025, 01:52 PM)
Yes, I am going to do this, just signed up to volunteer at a dog shelter.

How long do you think it will take for me to be okay and get a job where I would be facing people?
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No one can answer that. You have to discover the answer yourself

 

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