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 ...::: Long Distance Relationship Version 4:::...., The fellowship of LDR

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post Nov 8 2007, 10:36 PM

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QUOTE(Jaroque @ Nov 8 2007, 09:38 PM)
I would like to ask..to people out there whoes having a LDR right now...do partners experience situations where they just no keep in contact for like 2 weeks to a month before? Or is it everyday sure keep in contact no matter what happen?

I'm a bit blurr right now on what i'm facing  sad.gif
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For my case, I have not experience it before...

we both talk to ea other everyday, phone, sms and skype wit webcam on..

even we're busy wit studies and work, after we get home, will surely spend some time with ea other.. and till now, 2 yrs has past and everything still the same..


btw, new topic we got o_O?

full wit 2500 post ed ah?

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post Nov 10 2007, 01:04 AM

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QUOTE(BlueWind @ Nov 8 2007, 11:48 PM)
Wah babysept you good leh you have webcam but I don't I bought microphone for my gf and now we talk everyday through MSN, phone(not a lot can't always call), sms and skype as well without mic lol..

One more post to go and it's 2500 posts, check it out wink.gif
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not really that good, jus dat, we both understand dat we wont have much time to spend wit each other..
so we actually treasure every moment..
skype and webcam, is like a dating tool for us =p
as i will only get to c him mayb once in a yr or even longer.. so we got no choice..

u can try using webcam ah, at least u get to c her more often =p

me and my bf, we even watch movies together..
dl the same movie, on webcam, start the movie tgt =x

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post Nov 10 2007, 01:07 AM

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QUOTE(foofoosasa @ Nov 9 2007, 09:23 PM)
sad for some celebration cannot go through with her next year such as her brithday and valentine's day sad.gif  sad.gif  sad.gif maybe can give her some special gift?we trust each other a lot and sometimes i can treat her as fren and lover.so i only hope tat eventhough we would change in mind and appearance,but hope not in heart. smile.gif so far in here,anyone who have experience few year long distance love? sweat.gif
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Mine will be 2 yrs on the 25th of this month..

same as ur situation, im in PJ and he's in aus..
but 1 thing diff is dat, he's not from malaysia, but a citizen in aus..

oh well.. u can celebreate wit her thru the net wad.. like how i did..
presents, u can jus mail it =p

i noe its not gonna be easy cuz both of u been tgt for almost 5 yrs, a sudden separation will be diff for u but u'll get used to it sooner or later...
the beginning of it, might be a bit susah ba..

but still, all the best =p
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post Nov 10 2007, 02:55 PM

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QUOTE(pandazhun @ Nov 10 2007, 01:16 AM)
@babysept
I really tink that ur relationship is so sweet...
watch movie tgh through webcam...
u met ur bf through online game 1 rite?
u give me the hope in LDR actually..if 1 day u get married with ur boy boy then remember to tell us here wor....
:)sure every1 will b v happy....
wish u all the best ya..
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Yea, met him thru online games =p

I think, every each of us, do hope that our LDR could last forever thou it might not be as easy.
but still, we gotta giv our best and try to maintain the r/s as gud as how it was =p
jia you all.. thou ppl telling me LDR will not possible to be worked out, but i still giv my best cuz i really wanna be wit him..
and now, after i got to know dat, even thou im the only one being in LDR before, but but but.. now i got the whole bunch of u and it really makes me feel better and also giv me more hope after seeing so many of u, having a quite successful LDR =p

Watch movie tgt through webcam, is something we replaced by goin out for movie tgt cuz we cant =p

U guys can try, cuz i think its good and actually quite funny.. hehe =x

wish u all the best and gud luck tooo panda.. get married.. O_O .. long long way to go =p
who knows if u might be getting married before me =x


Added on November 10, 2007, 2:58 pm
QUOTE(michael9413 @ Nov 10 2007, 09:01 AM)
wow so sweet like tat..   smile.gif
tat y i'm planning to get another 3G Phone to call her mah... lagi nice... can see her all the time...
@mandy...
for me i'm in KL and she is in PG... jus for a few months till now... i'll go back at least once in every 2 weeks...
last month i become the hero as said by my fren...
i wen back more than3 times.... 31st Oct still in PG...
wen back on the 6th, 13th then 27th... haha...
i never complain about tired la... i love to see her and hug her...  smile.gif
even everyday we talk about 1-2 hours on the phone...

so that's wat i'm trying to sacrifice...
I hope that mine will be ending also... she is trying to find a job here...
in food industries or Semi-Con also... anyone pls help???
she is trying to find one but hard to get... she study food but work in Semi-Con for 2 yrs already...
wanna join back food but hard coz no experience...
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ehehehe.. i bought my N73 and he got his N95 lately..
but i think there might be something wrong wit the network.. 3G doesnt seem to work for both of us.. =/
and, for us to call ea other, O_O, its gonna be so exp =p


Added on November 10, 2007, 3:02 pm
QUOTE(BlueWind @ Nov 10 2007, 11:03 AM)
I'm the same as you, we know that we don't get to spend much time together but we also especially me don't have the money to buy a good webcam I know there's a cheap ones but I don't like it but anyhow, we don't even know when we can see each other in a year for this year it's going to be the second time. The next year I'm not so sure about it.. smile.gif
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ermmm.. actually.. logitech's webcams are not bad..
i bought mine for 80 bucks 2 yrs ago, and i think its cheaper now..
mine not bad, after using it for 2 yrs, still quite ok...

Im also alwaz worried bout it, dunno when will it be the next time for me to see him again =p
and dats y, i alwaz wanna be wit him and of cuz, seeing him thru webcam, i'll be happy enough even thou i dun get to touch him and im used to it since we only get to c ea other once in a yr..

for me, next yr, ill think it will be the same for me where im goin over to Syd to visit him again...
cuz he's gonna start working by the end of this yr, so he cant really go anywhere... =p

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post Nov 10 2007, 05:47 PM

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QUOTE(BlueWind @ Nov 10 2007, 05:19 PM)
Well I have another reason for not being able to get webcam as well, I can't just blindly go buy one without having a reason to my parents tongue.gif plus 80 plus dollar still considered quite expensive but haha later family see who am I talking with LOL I don't want them see mah tongue.gif
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my family kinda knows bout it already =p
dad still kinda like blurry blurry but i think he knows, just act toopid..

and before i went aussie, he was asking me, y out of so many countries, i chose aussie.. kept asking me to follow some tours to play ard before meeting my frens =x
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post Nov 10 2007, 10:47 PM

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QUOTE(BlueWind @ Nov 10 2007, 08:44 PM)
Eh!! SAME SAME!! LOL

But I was forced to tell my sister about our relationship.. laugh.gif My father also keep asking me you go Singapore going to meet that girl or not? When I told him that I was going to meet another friend of mine is Singapore he still ask you going to meet that girl or not? I was like doh.gif doh.gif
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LOL.. i cant hide it from my sis or mum.. cuz my comp is not inside my room.. but the living room upstairs..
so whenever they pass by or come out from the room.. they can jus see =p

and my sis.. wit the mulut yg besar.. spread the news to my frens =.=|||
and i got spammed on sms, friendster and msn...
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post Nov 11 2007, 12:01 AM

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QUOTE(michael9413 @ Nov 10 2007, 10:51 PM)
wow... punish her la... spreading your news then you spread her's in here...  tongue.gif
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LOL~ thou shes younger den me, but mai look down at her power..
she's more ganas den me..
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post Nov 12 2007, 02:20 PM

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yea.. if u know wads wrong, den mus solve it..
dun jus giv up after 4 yrs, dats so long...
work hard on it for the solution.. talk to her nicely..
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post Nov 12 2007, 07:05 PM

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apa ni.. msia - sg ... lagi dekat daripada saya punya..

mine.. msia - aus =p
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post Nov 13 2007, 11:17 PM

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QUOTE(BlueWind @ Nov 12 2007, 07:31 PM)
tak da apa apa mah... still LDR juga... laugh.gif
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lolll.. sama sama, tapi saya punya, jauh sikit =p
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post Nov 13 2007, 11:19 PM

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QUOTE(Joshua_0718 @ Nov 12 2007, 08:54 PM)
More and more members in here!!! rclxm9.gif

babysept, PICTA!!!!
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aiyer.. josh bully =p

im junior member pls, where are all my big sistas and brothers??

we take turns =p

so so so, JOSH, its ur turn now =x


Added on November 13, 2007, 11:20 pm
QUOTE(Melfice @ Nov 12 2007, 10:07 PM)
WoW , this thread really alive ... im one of LDR .. meet her thru on9 games .. been contacting thru games but now we quitted .. using MSN and SMS ... it workz quite well ... but she had ex b4 .. maybe 6 liddat ..first kiss is byebye ... we in tis relationship about 5month liddat .. i forgot about tat sry .. .. haizz i duno wad i feel sumtime ... hope it workz out well ... sumtime she like .. din believe about tis relationship .. she had bad exp b4 ..

but still it work real good le .. from her reaction many 1st time is with me ... like receive 13 Roses .. i send to her .. meet the seller in this forum lol .. good service .. izit Aeris .. xD .. at last her mum know ... my mum know too .. but nth stop us ...
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eeeeeee.. finally found someone who has the same situation as how i met mine =p

ni hao.. i got to know my bf thru on9 game as well =x


Added on November 13, 2007, 11:22 pm
QUOTE(pandazhun @ Nov 12 2007, 11:58 PM)
panda in relationship crisis too...
but then...be patient and have faith in love mayb?
let's see lo...
hope she wont give up easily...
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panda, yao jia you~

LDR got hope de oh.. dun giv up!

u'll overcome it very very soon~ no worriesss!


Added on November 13, 2007, 11:33 pm
QUOTE(Joshua_0718 @ Nov 13 2007, 11:18 PM)
I am just 12. The youngest here rclxm9.gif
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O_O .. josh 12???

dats gonna be the headline for tmr's newspapers =p

and btw, SONY T2 looks so kewl.. how much did u get urs for??

erm.. last thing.. i found out dat.. we are somehow connected on friendster.. o_O.. (direct connection)

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post Nov 14 2007, 09:59 PM

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LOL.. i call mine dar as well.. sometimes zhu tou or ben dan =p

josh, dats so bloody cheap pls zzz.. imagine the retail price is like RM 1399??


Added on November 14, 2007, 10:00 pm
QUOTE(Joshua_0718 @ Nov 14 2007, 04:45 AM)
I can't put my pic here lar, I put last time, I remove it already.

RM444.40 biggrin.gif
Huh? What your e-mail for friendster? PM me. smile.gif
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can la can la..

u're the big brotha eh =p

we put it after u =x

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post Nov 15 2007, 01:05 PM

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eh eh.. come come guys..
pic plsssss @.@

*im still waiting*


Added on November 15, 2007, 1:08 pm
QUOTE(Joshua_0718 @ Nov 14 2007, 10:12 PM)
sleep.gif

Si Lu Yi Tiao

sad.gif


Added on November 14, 2007, 10:19 pm
Think because you from TARC. So friends in TAC that may lead we are direct connected. smile.gif
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where got si lu yi tiao??

qian mian de lu, yi pian GUANG MING~


@.@ .. .. josh frm TARC also??


Added on November 15, 2007, 1:11 pm
QUOTE(jdreamer @ Nov 15 2007, 09:04 AM)
I remember that someone posted a report which claims that both SDR and LDR have same success rate, right? I still believe that LDR works. Like what I mentioned before, there's a couple that I know, they have only been in SDR less than a year and then separated by years and now they're getting engaged! smile.gif

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eeee.. i do believe in LDR as well.. even thou i noe its not easy...

still working very very hard.. for the day where both of us can be wit each other...

actually.. in every r/s, both side have to play their part.. as long as both side has the commitment, i think it will go very well =p

thou LDR is harder to maintain compare to SDR =x




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post Nov 15 2007, 01:30 PM

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QUOTE(michael9413 @ Nov 15 2007, 01:23 PM)
both also hard to maintain if one side does not communicate well...
or either 1 changed already...
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yeap yeap.. dats y, we shouldnt hide anything frm ea other..

be frank and alwaz talk to each other..

spilt out everything.. trust is alwaz the essential ingredient in a r/s..

which is y, me and my bf, insist in talking to ea other day regardless how long is it.. even if it 5 mins, it would be fine for us.

communication really plays a big big role in a r/s..

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yeap yeap..

2 hands up for michael's post =p

btw btw.. where's everyone now??

all hiding after we're demanding for more pictas?~??~
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QUOTE(Joshua_0718 @ Nov 15 2007, 08:47 PM)
Haha, I am ex-tarcian. Graduated on 2006
Just post. No need to bother him.  tongue.gif
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@.@ .. .. hi senior =p

from KL branch de ah?

wad skewl =p
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post Nov 15 2007, 09:01 PM

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errmm.. since dreamer posted his, i think its my turn den =p

be fair everyone.. even im posting mine le =p

all my big sistas and brothas, its ur turn =x

both taken during my Syd's trip in Sept =p


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post Nov 15 2007, 09:13 PM

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keke thanks... i went to syd to visit him =p

stayed there for 2 1/2 weeks.. hehe

*urs is lovely too =p*
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post Nov 15 2007, 09:24 PM

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QUOTE(jdreamer @ Nov 15 2007, 09:14 PM)
Rich girl spotted! GUYS, DO YOUR WORK NOW! KIDNAP!

*cough*

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Thanks.  tongue.gif
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@.@ .. dats not gonna be me =p

i got no choice.. last year we went sg tgt, but this yr, he has to work.. we promised ea other, no matter wad,at least meet up once a yr ma.. so, i went over to visit him loh =p

since i got fren studyin there, saved a lot on accomodation =p

mainly sponsored by dad and mum, and he paid me some too =x

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post Nov 15 2007, 09:27 PM

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O_O .. me???

look for josh, i bet he's gonna be richer =p

*kidnap josh for his NEW CAM*


Added on November 15, 2007, 9:27 pm
QUOTE(BlueWind @ Nov 15 2007, 09:18 PM)
LOL, jdreamer one thing you may not realised is that I can remove one of darklight's gf pic you know then I can post... laugh.gif no can turn to yes one.... biggrin.gif
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LOL~ windy, do it plssss!

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