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 ...::: Long Distance Relationship Version 4:::...., The fellowship of LDR

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post Feb 17 2008, 09:27 PM

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If not ahem ahem, then what? Ahak Ahak? tongue.gif
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post Feb 18 2008, 10:23 AM

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Let teh river slowly flow.... biggrin.gif
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post Feb 18 2008, 07:12 PM

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QUOTE(smile888 @ Feb 18 2008, 10:31 AM)
hey ppl.. i'm in a dilemma. do you think i should work in singapore after i graduate while my bf stays in msia continue his studies n work in msia as well? is it going to destroy our relationship?
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We can't answer you whether it will destroy your relationship if you were to go to Singapore to work. - Nonetheless, we can advice you if you have problems although we are not professional councillor but at least in certain point we are able to help you. Basically all I can tell you is the same thing with other people is that you both need to have a strong commitment with each other, understanding, patience and etc. etc. that you can think of what you need to do in SDR as well. Obviously, one thing that LDR lack of is less time to meet, communicate and things like that. This one you can work on it with your partner. smile.gif
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post Feb 18 2008, 10:43 PM

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Ok first of all, I know it's not easy for you not to be sad for this moment but I must tell you that you should overcome it quickly because you need to realise that you have a 2 years of journey to go through with her. Just tell yourself it wouldn't be long and it will be quick. Don't take this matter like as if it's the end of the world for you.

Everyone is risk of losing their partner not to mention SDR as well, so don't take distance as a threat for you and your partner. If she willing to go through this with you she will.

Don't worry be happy, and it's only two years.. My gf is a Singaporean and I only get a chance or two to meet her every year when we will be really together? Honestly I really don't know, but one thing for sure is that it's not only 2 years this short it will be longer than that. So be strong ok? wink.gif

Good luck

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post Feb 19 2008, 10:11 AM

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QUOTE(xinvasion @ Feb 19 2008, 12:13 AM)
wow, thanks but i don't understand your last sentence, "one thing for sure is that it's not only 2 years this short it will be longer than that". Means we'll be seperated for even longer? hmm..
i feel more relax too after i know her willingness to stay in this relationship, i was worried cause i didn't know how much is she feeling to put effort, but she say she won't leave me and this is just the beginning..

thanks for your help
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Don't understand what I'm talking about? No worries because I don't even understand what I'm talking about doh.gif doh.gif

Nah, I was refering to my own case at the last sentence the rest above was my advice to you.. whistling.gif


QUOTE(smile888 @ Feb 19 2008, 04:03 AM)
because if i go to singapore, i might not be coming back.. i have the intention of bringing my parents over to stay.. and he as the eldest son will not leave his parents in msia at all cost...
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But if you want to continue then you can just go back and forth to see him.. Provided if you have the willingness, otherwise then.... you know what its going to be..
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post Feb 19 2008, 03:11 PM

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First step begging for name card? ah??

Oh yea, MAYBE in future maybe la very low possibility I might tumpang your car to Singapore if you can.. tongue.gif

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post Feb 19 2008, 09:05 PM

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Fly to mars.. biggrin.gif
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post Feb 21 2008, 03:18 PM

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Lol, the way you say damn funny lar andy.. tongue.gif
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post Feb 21 2008, 05:52 PM

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Lol... I read also I laugh release my tension tongue.gif
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post Feb 21 2008, 10:39 PM

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Some busy ma, but some dunno fly where edi.. tongue.gif

And counting down for my retirement sad.gif
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post Feb 21 2008, 11:17 PM

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You guys misinterpret my meaning la, I was talking about the post.. whistling.gif doh.gif
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post Feb 21 2008, 11:25 PM

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Ok, as you know whenever the post reached the amount of 2,500 then it has to be closed..

Eh? 2,500 or 1,500? I messed up.. biggrin.gif

Ok, nevermind my stupid blurriness it's 2,500 sweat.gif sleep.gif

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post Feb 23 2008, 08:28 PM

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Fuiyoh~ Apa macam tarak orang mia? semua pigi mana? lu semua bikin apa?

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post Feb 23 2008, 10:01 PM

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dun wan tongue.gif
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post Feb 25 2008, 10:08 AM

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Wow, I'm so cold here..
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post Feb 25 2008, 10:36 AM

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Someone is on fire rolleyes.gif

She doesn't reply then don't keep sms la just let her be otherwise she might get irritated.. smile.gif

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post Feb 25 2008, 10:48 AM

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It's not a bad habit we talking about la, just better don't overdo it only.. smile.gif
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post Feb 25 2008, 01:14 PM

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Throw your phone tongue.gif
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post Feb 25 2008, 05:58 PM

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For now just try don't disturb her too much la.. Not to say you very annoying or what just better prevent things from getting worse lor.. BE A MAN, DO THE RIGHT THING! tongue.gif

You save 50 cent here and then you go somewhere else you save another 50 then you get one dollar. Then you take the dollar to the dollar store and go buy something else! tongue.gif
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post Feb 25 2008, 06:18 PM

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Nothing lar just some stupid comedy show I took. Kinda funny laugh.gif

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