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 Depression & Anxiety, Advice wanted

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zuozi
post Jan 9 2025, 11:50 PM

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Maksud TS masih single? No someones you love or care or loving you to sharing?

medication i don't think is work for everyone

You need someone in touch , got warm , got blood help you go thru all this , Forum won't help you punya other than many opinion since everyone handing things differently

someone i know got 自闭症 she getting better by try having a pet and someone love her, understand her , i don't know how both of them solve it together the husband and wife , because they never told i never ask either , because i can understand how its like from a orphanage experience i do felling down and down and down , but I'm okay , getting better, walked out because i have someone irl can share, encourage, understanding, caring .

I don't know where you can find a person/community/support group, but i think you need someone to talk about it irl probably not here that my advice .

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zuozi
post Jan 10 2025, 10:59 AM

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QUOTE(hihihehe @ Jan 10 2025, 12:38 AM)
If the other half is supportive then is a positive but if they give more stress then it will be more worse lol
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If the other half not willing to help at all is time to temporary move on without them, that the reason i advice TS go for support group/community/woman house etc

Medication example for hbp if the person don't want change or getting improve the person will forever using hbp medication not gonna solve the problem at the end

Interact with the right person/groups , those sound/joy/tear's/voice/is real and you can feel it that what make ppl relief/temporary let go for who i am/ppl can find alternative exit through all this support group since those feeling is real/is there/they understand/

the idea all this community is to accept/admit/ you need help, you don't want hide , accept who you are right now, temporary let go the previous you .

My time in orphanage from time to time we do visit all this community house, NGO house, to share our experience and feeling with other, doesn't matter what your background

Sometime human don't always interact with other or they really don't talk about it probably is feel malu,羞耻,or whatever reason is like example damm I'm a successful man is so xia sui to tell ppl i have this problem because the successful man worry how other think about him, like you're weak, loser etc negative thinking , in support group they listen, they don't judge , they help you overcome it.

That why i insist and advice TS seeking alternative help from this community support group i mention , sometimes you'll find someone have more bad life than yours, more bad experience than yours for the moment probably you can feel relief because I'm not the one is suffering , then when you try lend out your help to help the other still suffering sometimes things can improve

That my experience, if you have no idea what my long wall of text talking about just forget about it because i know my england is so broken .

 

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