QUOTE(hihihehe @ Jan 10 2025, 12:38 AM)
If the other half is supportive then is a positive but if they give more stress then it will be more worse lol
If the other half not willing to help at all is time to temporary move on without them, that the reason i advice TS go for support group/community/woman house etc
Medication example for hbp if the person don't want change or getting improve the person will forever using hbp medication not gonna solve the problem at the end
Interact with the right person/groups , those sound/joy/tear's/voice/is real and you can feel it that what make ppl relief/temporary let go for who i am/ppl can find alternative exit through all this support group since those feeling is real/is there/they understand/
the idea all this community is to accept/admit/ you need help, you don't want hide , accept who you are right now, temporary let go the previous you .
My time in orphanage from time to time we do visit all this community house, NGO house, to share our experience and feeling with other, doesn't matter what your background
Sometime human don't always interact with other or they really don't talk about it probably is feel malu,羞耻,or whatever reason is like example damm I'm a successful man is so xia sui to tell ppl i have this problem because the successful man worry how other think about him, like you're weak, loser etc negative thinking , in support group they listen, they don't judge , they help you overcome it.
That why i insist and advice TS seeking alternative help from this community support group i mention , sometimes you'll find someone have more bad life than yours, more bad experience than yours for the moment probably you can feel relief because I'm not the one is suffering , then when you try lend out your help to help the other still suffering sometimes things can improve
That my experience, if you have no idea what my long wall of text talking about just forget about it because i know my england is so broken .