1. If a woman sees you as an ATM, other attributes dont matter. It may change but why would you want to change a customer that doesnt need your service at first place?

2. If she says she just wants to be friends, you likely put too much pressure on her. Its less likely for her if she's attracted to you as she will be highly alert whether other girls are aiming at you

3. When you feel there's a connection you're likely to amplifying your own feeling as it may not be an objective reality, doesnt necessarily mean she has to obey your wishes. You're not a baby anymore, the world doesnt feed you exactly what you wanted when you're crying. Also, you likely to trigger her defense mechanism when you get close to her, it could be the way she's raised up when she's encountering an interest from another party.

This post has been edited by -mystery-: Dec 16 2024, 10:30 AM

red flag, and then?
what do you want out of it