Accidentally joined this so called like group masalah rumah tangga in Facebook.

Wow so many cases I read there make me feel phobia.
One of them is one guy married for more than 10 years. Give all his heart fully to his family, wife. Just to be surprise in morning by wife letter asking to be cerai.

His heart broken.
Asking others what he should do.
He feel loss and empty.
Don't know whether he can continue to life.

Walauweh.
I read also my hand feel shacky already.

Sometime if you see good looking men, women but still single and wonder why I think I do now know the answer. Probably because of past trauma. Like one of my friend. Oil and gas field. Salary around 40k per month. Still not married. People ask why. He said past trauma. Heart broken really bad by a girl that his heart shattered to pieces. He don't want to experience that again. ☹️☹️



This post has been edited by MmeBox: Dec 11 2024, 02:42 AM

Pain is no reason not to try again.

i hear from real life friend problem i also choose to be MGTOW... liao


tldr....
to find 1 really patner in crime like wife/gf its so rare that i sometimes think ,the one aready died yo

This post has been edited by poco loco: Dec 11 2024, 03:37 AM

If you don't try, then you failed.

Failed and don't try to get up again =loser
Failed but get up and try till succeed = champion

How do you overcome failure? If your business hits a problem, do you just curl up and cry, or do you stop and think about how to overcome the problem and then try whatever possible to succeed?

u join group masalah rumah tangga of course u gonna see all the problems..

see others who merrid happily ok je

you see how many members in that group, then compare it to how many marriages in malaysia

Always remember , it just your turn and ada wang ada choice.

TS, you join a ber-masalah group, of course read/ hear all the shiet masalah and 404-ed from losers only.

Leave group

This post has been edited by jojolicia: Dec 11 2024, 07:34 AM

Wait till you join group2 masalah kesihatan.

Makes you wanna quit life.

TS should join toxic positivity Whatsapp groups.

it's the same with any case....just DON'T be the one yourself
always be self aware because i notice a lot of people out there are not self aware of anything
which is why they're in the trouble they're in right now(doesn't matter which kind)

or maybe in some cases, they just don't care

Earn 40k can change gf every month why want to get married?

Then u should join group Pemburu Janda

If you see divorce is the success, getting married is the failure. It will change your perspective.

Maybe u need to join group

Kebanggaan berpoligami

lol
group masalah rumah tangga sure all problem one

Don't waste time in unproductive content.

you are what you eat/see/hear/read/absorb using your senses.

Do you keep same car for your whole life? Just ask yourself that. If no, why not?

Sudah boleh bersara awal.

No Pain,No Gain

next time get advice from the best



the best

fixed for u

The first test of marriage is within the first 5 years. fail that, you have alot of work to do.

This post has been edited by pineapplegrenade: Dec 11 2024, 08:26 AM

heartbroken cant sambung by pieces

traumatized, heart broken by girl
weak
topkek

join masalah group, negative group of course all you see, all the negative surrounds you

kek logic

TS did u read About This Group?

this group ka?



This post has been edited by fookie: Dec 11 2024, 09:02 AM

Thing is, this kind of posting also posted and twitter. Then people believe.
kek

tbh, weak generation

kahwin bukan cinta

kahwin is a responsibility 1st then baru cinta

kalau kahwin then bila ada masalah sikit, tak tahan, itu lah ini lah, then masa cinta semua indah ke?

that is why we thought to have faith, to have hope and man must be man to take the responsibility.

my idol

kek

do you let others in your car? if so, why not your wife?

point is, my wife is not a car.

Wife is sacred. Who talking about wife here? Wife you must cherish till death do us part.

nowadays people barely know each other then wanna get married. of course will cerai.

TS cari problen sure la kena problem ....

I get the feeling that we are not understanding each other here.

I'm just trolling, don't take it seriously

He said past trauma. Heart broken really bad by a girl that his heart shattered to pieces. He don't want to experience that again. ☹️☹️

[/quote]

Past is past laa. Everyone deserve to be happy.
Know your worth. If people hurt you, cheat on you, it is not because of you. It is because that people choice to cheat. Let them go, and rot in hell because karma is real. Why punish yourself? Please have a value, if people dont want you, you should 100X dont want that people. If people love you, you must love them back sincerely. Doesn't mean if you start the relationship over again with others, you will experience the same bad things again. World would be better if we decide, there is no TRAUMA in life. Just moving on.

yes, sometimes its trauma.
sometimes just dont wanna get married because wanna have fun and free.
sometimes just dont get married because cannot. because like same gender.

and those kisah rumah tangga facebook group or all those anonymous story sharing not all of them true. take it with a grain of salt.

all waifu lupa mau servis...

I also watch many /okstorytime videos. Seems pointless to marry lol

Just move on bro. Lmao