Dec 7 2024, 12:58 AM
QUOTE(C_ST @ Dec 6 2024, 10:52 AM)
Well, i have friend similar to TS situation, but luckily they are not married yet, still got time to think.
TS really need to sit down, get a formal talk. IF hard, then pay some $$, get a mediator/consultant/lawyer to host the talk. Casual talk/discussion wont help, it will probaly come out with "ok ok ok, we see how then"
Post #2 & Post #3 obviously dont understand the actual situation, how things changes over time. TS emphasized he wan kids, and he is not pet type person, u still ask TS to go along -.-
Agreed with you.TS really need to sit down, get a formal talk. IF hard, then pay some $$, get a mediator/consultant/lawyer to host the talk. Casual talk/discussion wont help, it will probaly come out with "ok ok ok, we see how then"
Post #2 & Post #3 obviously dont understand the actual situation, how things changes over time. TS emphasized he wan kids, and he is not pet type person, u still ask TS to go along -.-
Really need to sit down and sort out everything face-to-face.
It's time to be open and direct. Communicate both your expectations and see if a compromise can be reached.
Otherwise, it is pointless to go on in the marriage.
If I were you, I would have made it super clear that I hope my future wife would be able to raise our kids together etc.
If no, then we won't be wasting each other's time.
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