Hopefully, TS can take some time to reflect and update his perspective.

From the way TS described the situation, it's quite apparent that the wife is already having second thoughts about the marriage. Her hesitation to have children seems to stem from deeper concerns about the relationship itself. The fact that she secured a separate condo suggests she's been preparing for a possible exit, yet TS remains unaware of these signals.

The dog appears to be a test—an emotional investment to see if TS can commit to something for the sake of their relationship. Unfortunately, it seems he’s not handling it well.

Based on how TS talks about the relationship, it's clear that his wife has unresolved issues—not just with the marriage, but specifically with him. The dog may have become her emotional outlet, and his reaction to it might have revealed aspects of his character that concern her. Rather than seeing the bigger picture, TS is fixated on the dog and missing the underlying message.

At this point, the idea of bringing a child into this uncertain situation is understandably something she's not ready for. Seeking help from a marriage counselor might help her process these emotions and give both of them a clearer understanding of where they stand.