Looks like your wife put the pet first before you and she is not able to balance you and the dog which make you rant in this forum.

1. Some serious discussion need to take place
- Dog lifestyle :
a. If travel, what are the plans
- Pet friendly hotel, food etc
b. If dog social activities (i.e dog walking, vet check etc ), who is responsible and what are the plans?

- Husband need :
a. Travel plan
b. Social plan
c. Leisure plan