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The concept of asking for favors
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TSestacado
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Nov 17 2024, 03:21 AM, updated 2y ago
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I have come to notice that the favors that I am asked to do are of this nature - the person requesting the favor doesn't want to inconvenience someone close to him/her who's responsibility is to do that said favor, thus delegating the execution of said favor to someone less close, usually me, at the expense of my own inconvenience.
Basically, they will ask a person they love less to do something, so that the person they love more is not disturbed.
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Blofeld
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Nov 17 2024, 03:24 AM
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who?
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Chisinlouz
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Nov 17 2024, 03:35 AM
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Learn to say no
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gashout
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Nov 17 2024, 06:38 AM
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Life is short. Stop pleasing people and taken advantage of.
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incognitroll
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Nov 17 2024, 06:57 AM
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as others have said, learn to say no.
i once saw a close colleague of mine running errands for a girl he liked, even driving her to meet another guy she claimed was just a "friend" because she didn’t have a car. it was such a miserable mess...
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Cyberbullies
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Nov 17 2024, 06:59 AM
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TS is people pleaser ah
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Ayer
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Nov 17 2024, 07:03 AM
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Wrong. That person doing that bc they know well you are a sucker. Nothing to do with relationships etc
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ZerOne01
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Nov 17 2024, 07:13 AM
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No lol it depends whether u are a sucker or not
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gashout
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Nov 17 2024, 07:15 AM
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QUOTE(incognitroll @ Nov 17 2024, 06:57 AM) as others have said, learn to say no. i once saw a close colleague of mine running errands for a girl he liked, even driving her to meet another guy she claimed was just a "friend" because she didn’t have a car. it was such a miserable mess... Damn Beta male will end up hating all women due his lack of sense
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lordgamer3
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Nov 17 2024, 09:15 AM
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QUOTE(estacado @ Nov 17 2024, 03:21 AM) I have come to notice that the favors that I am asked to do are of this nature - the person requesting the favor doesn't want to inconvenience someone close to him/her who's responsibility is to do that said favor, thus delegating the execution of said favor to someone less close, usually me, at the expense of my own inconvenience. Basically, they will ask a person they love less to do something, so that the person they love more is not disturbed. Simple if close family ok, if not something called boundaries learn to draw it.
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cassian948
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Nov 17 2024, 09:37 AM
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know when to say NO.
if it inconvenience others doesn't mean it's fine to inconvenience yourself.
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thesoothsayer
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Nov 17 2024, 09:47 AM
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QUOTE(Blofeld @ Nov 17 2024, 03:24 AM) Sounds like his parents.
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