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Advice Wanted how to "naturally" pursue girl?

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hoonanoo
post Nov 10 2024, 11:40 PM

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First of all TS, how much you willing to play the game??

Moment you express your interests: it could trigger a competition.

Is she pretty? lots of fanboys?

I always think the best pursuits are those that you get a girl who is interested to stick with you as she notices your personality and wants to be closer to you due to your attractiveness.
hoonanoo
post Nov 14 2024, 03:05 PM

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To make it natural, TS needs to have ability to attract.

For eg, how to make her spot you above the rest?

Good looks
Good grooming
Good academic results
Exuberate confidence
Smart and intellingent
Independent and gentleman
Fun and adventerous
has many common interests with her

If a gal takes notice of you, she be interested.

However if a gal has lots of guys going after her, she be waiting for you to give her attention and show her why you are above the rest of competition.

This post has been edited by hoonanoo: Nov 14 2024, 03:05 PM
hoonanoo
post Nov 19 2024, 03:37 PM

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QUOTE(Police4896 @ Oct 27 2024, 03:34 PM)
I have a senior in uni, I think I'm into her, I want try to pursue her. She seems ok with talking to me and I have talked to her a few times since I first met her in orientation, but no more. This fish seems to be really damn big, I don't want the line to snap.

But then one problem is when it comes to making friends I am total gone case. I haven't actively tried making friends ever before in my life, I always wait until people talk to me. I eventually realized that I only talk to certain people that I know is because I am comfortable with them, that I am severely introverted. So I tried just choosing to be comfortable with people. Doing that I just talk to people like I already know them, sometimes it works sometimes it doesn't. So I want to learn how to make friend properly.

Another problem is that she's in year2 while I am year1. So not much chances to talk other than during events and when I see her around in school.

Yet another problem is my personality, I am not very talkative. Every time I pass by a place where she frequents, I often have to think of something to ask before entering the area so if I do see her I have something to say rather than just blanking out.

But so far my plan is to just keep talking to her until I eventually get close enough that she wouldn't reject me. But more and more this does not seem possible since there are so few events, and very often when I do see her around she's studying with her friend group, so many people I too shy to approach. Another thing is that I know some of her friends as well so I feel that if I see her with other people I know, I have to talk to all of them to not seem like an asshole.

So how do I catch fish?
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I had many chances.

Like eg there was a girl that used to ask me for a lift to university.

we lived almost in the same neighborhood.

I have been taking her to uni for the past 2 years.

Just the 2 of us in the car.



 

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