Respect her wishes? What the fish are you? The freaking genie? Stop pussyfooting around and man the hell up.

Itu helang gave you good guide liao

I summarize for you in layman terms
You feel you are not going to get her
You feel she will reject you

So basically, you sudah kalah, 0, zilch, makan telur, kosong.

Which means there’s NO HARM TRYING, cause you Memang have nothing what. So don’t be shy.

Just dress smart and clean, don’t overdo your cologne that’s weird. Be confident, when you walk up to her if her friend is there just say hi to them because nobody likes a rude prick, tell her she looks very nice today and miss seeing you and just ask her out. In front of the friend. If she asks why, just tell her to her face because I like your company. It’s true, and you jantan, so why scared to say it.

F*** that texting shit. Ask her to her face.

When out with her, don’t freaking beat around the bush. Ask questions that help you. Ask why she single, what she looking for in a relationship (don’t ask what she look in a man cause if the answer is Brad Pitt you no 180cm and not handsome you effectively bury yourself), what she values in life, talk about her hopes and her dreams. Get to know her.

Basically, you are a salesman trying to sell yourself. The wrong way is to tell her the features of benefits of yourself and talk non stop. Stfu. When you want to sell something, find out what the person is looking for, what they want, then sell to address that need.

She likes you lah. But she waiting for you to man the f up. On the date itself if you can sell yourself to meet her needs, just say “I think we can make this work together and I’d like to try it with you, what you’d say?”

And that’s done

Or you can continue drama like pondan, what if she don’t like me. What if she upset at me I didn’t go clubbing with her. What if tomorrow Thanos snap his finger. Enough lah. You man then just do it.

Shit Kumar the cross dresser more decisive than you.

My child. She cramp today you buy dark chocolate for her the next day. And fail to give her. Are you some special kind of stupid? Or you retarded? Ok fine you won’t know you’re retarded if you were. So I tell you, you’re retarded.

You laosai today, tomorrow I give you medicine. You lao finish already loh! Give you medicine for what?

Yes she will be in your bed last century when you not there. You didn’t even give her the dark chocolate. She not feeling well you did nothing for her. You inch forward to where? Your head against the wall?

Hahaha damn hilarious omg. You feel not doing anything for her is progress.

And you should ask her back, how about you? If she say no, ask her why not? Then you know all the reasons she will use to reject you. If she says yes, then you ask her why she still single, what's stopping her, then you will know all the reasons she needs to be a couple.

Great, you asked her out, HOW HARD WAS THAT LA FFS.

Don't text her everyday, don't reply immediately if she text you -- simmer for an hour or 2 and said you were doing homework, gym, just don't make yourself available to her and standby like a dog. Don't do stupid thing like good morning, have you eaten text, that gets you in friend zone faster than light speed.

NOW? Act cool for the next few days. Raya right? Let it simmer for 3 or 4 days. And then tell her "hey I really enjoyed your company and the conversation we had that day, let's do it again, do you like <cafe> <mamak> <whatever la she likes>, let's check out <place> together. BEST if you talk to her FACE to FACE so you can see her reaction. And always keep a smile on.

Text gives people time to sit on it. Whereas face to face she has to make a decision there and then. If you're nice, she won't have any reason to reject you.

Edit: bonus point because I’m in a good mood
When you don’t immediately make yourself available to reply her text. You don’t always do stupid thing like “good morning” “eat already or not” text

It shows you have a life and better things to do other than layan her (think about it the other way around, if you have no life you’re not interesting and nobody wants to be with an uninteresting person).

So when you ask her out, she will grab that opportunity to talk to you more because you’re not always available. And compared to every other pussy, you ask her to a face with real interaction.

This post has been edited by Jason: Mar 29 2025, 09:59 AM

I even give you the script to say to her. To find out.

Fast 7 bit lah. Waiting for updates lah cb. Slow week at work.

Consider what rooster?

You know you overthinking. And now you want to indulge in your overthinking. We all no time lah. Fast 7 a bit can?

She busy so what? Just go up to her and say “hey you’ve been so swamped and busy, need time out also, how about we go check out <cool new chill cafe> this weekend.”

Bloody hell, take every single opportunity you get. How you know she busy? Maybe she purposely pretend busy so she don’t look like she’s been sitting around whole day for you to show up. Can you stop pondan already?

Walk up to them, SMILE, tell the person she’s with sorry, can I steal her for a minute from you.

Talk to her, with the sentence I gave you. She says yes/ok. Look back at the person she’s with, say thank you to him/her and “she’s all yours”.

SMILE, be polite and courteous but confident.

Oh my god do I need to teach you how to be a polite human being? What’s wrong with your generation?

Edit: the person she’s with is her friend teman her wait for you so she don’t appear desperately sitting there alone waiting for you. Understand? You stupid or what?

This post has been edited by Jason: Apr 4 2025, 01:32 PM

Don’t overthink. Just grab every opportunity that is in front of you.

Ask her out, if she asks you “is it a date?”, answer her “only if we both have a good time”.

CONFIDENCE.
That’s what women like in a MAN.

It is very difficult to exit the friend zone unless you drastically change something that she look at you differently. Else you’ll be stuck there forever.

Nah. You make your intention known since day 1
“Feel an attraction to you, not sure what it is, want to get to know you better. “

Or

“I’ve got plenty of friends, but you, you just give a different kind of energy around you. I don’t want to just be friends with you, I feel there’s more to you than what I see. Tell me more about you”

Be bold, be jantan, make your intentions known upfront so that it is not misunderstood or coming across as creepy.

Edit: and if she’s not in for the ride from the start. Move on! So you don’t waste time energy and effort to be friend zoned in the end.

This post has been edited by Jason: Apr 9 2025, 05:58 PM

Excuses
TS either wants to change and improve
Or he remains as is

But universal truth is that the only constant is change. Don’t want to change and want to remain a loser? Sure. Nobody can help a person who doesn’t want to be helped.

He believe he is pondan, then he is.
Sure, got woman who likes pondan. There’s always an exception.

He think too much
Fear of losing what he don’t have. 😂

I also scared of this trade war later I no money to refuel my private jet that I don’t own. 🤦🏻‍♂️

faggot alert here.

the only thing you attract more than girls is homo bros.

Well given the amount of snowflakes and wimps these days among the strawberry generation, where “straight” men are pretty, put on makeup and use handbag, maybe your statement holds some truth to it.

And then there are people who identify as non binary, and there’s those who identify as a table or whatever random object. I guess the younger generation is confused. So no wonder nothing is 100% to them. Next thing you know your best friend since high school now identifies as a cupboard.

I didn’t mention that word
You did.

I’m just saying they are all confused thus they are not 100% sure they are straight as you say. Cause maybe next week you identify as a crooked stool.