basically women like these traits in men

- confidence
- taking the lead
- rich or can afford many things (despite whatever denial by some that money is not important, at the end of the day money will definitely take you places)
- sociable (if you are quiet, then you need to start talking)

most importantly, don't listen to the advice - "just be yourself".

If yourself is poor and introverted, you need to change la.

Work harder, socialise around, and start talking.

So, don't listen to the advice - "just be yourself"