Your description only covers the monetary aspect. This wall of text thread by lady sifu Ralna discussed what it means to be "top", or "successful" in your case. https://forum.lowyat.net/topic/5486344

So the question is, how to identify "successful" attributes? Some are intrinsic values that aren't visible outwardly, but if you only want to focus on money then I can ask you the exact same: how do YOU as a man, identify a rich person?

It's the same regardless of gender innit? You look for luxuries on the person... so many who WANT to be identified as such will do the exact same: get those luxuries. But again, we all know by now that's just the surface: true riches won't flaunt their wealth, so how? You gotta get to know the person to learn more lor. Unless you're gold digger or salesman where your job is to smell wealth, I don't know of any shortcuts.