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 How to handle this situation?, I feel kind of annoyed

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Ralna
post Sep 28 2024, 10:13 PM

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QUOTE(redracer2004 @ Sep 28 2024, 12:08 PM)
According to her, she feels she doesn't have much market, so I am not sure what she means actually.
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QUOTE(redracer2004 @ Sep 28 2024, 01:40 PM)
She thinks she not pretty and nobody actually will choose her. She said she piap only her ex bf and another potential only. The other potential didn't work out and then came me.
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From what I see, this woman is still hurt inside from her previous relationships. Her self-image and self-esteem is badly affected by what happened, and she constantly feels she is not good enough for any man to fall in love with her and commit to her.

There's a fear of abandonment and betrayal from the past; hence, she is afraid to commit to you and expose herself to the risk of getting hurt again.

I can relate to her feelings; quite normal among women actually.

If you love her and want to be with her, give her some time. After all, the relationship is still new. Whenever she says all these negative stuffs, just hug/cuddle her and reassure her.

Suddenly, I'm reminded of this Backstreet Boys song "I'll Never Break Your Heart"

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If you're serious about her and the relationship, be a man who keeps to your words and stay consistent to your actions.

If not, just let her go. She's better off alone than to get hurt again by another man (you).

Ralna
post Oct 2 2024, 02:47 AM

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Sounds like she doesn't want to be in any relationship nor work on her inner issues.

In denial. You can't save her if she doesn't want to be saved.

Just let her be back to single.

 

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