Looks like this girl having PTSD from past relationships. Beyond certain age (about past 30) pretty common for single girls to have some form of ptsd.

You need some patience here. On its own, to me, its not a deal breaker. More important for your decision is what she brings to the table in this relationship. How she treats you, her effort, how she expect to be treated in return.

In other words, she might think she is not worthy, but is she putting in the work to be worthy of you? If she does, then she might actually be worth it.

This post has been edited by Cubalagi: Sep 29 2024, 11:25 PM