To all the sifus and experienced married couples, what would you advice young married couples on sex? Must the husband (usually the case) always initiate or ask for it? Should the wife also initiate? How much sex is healthy for a young couple? Although I know that there are subjective factors like libido levels on both husband or wife, there should be an objective standard as to the average number of times deemed healthy.

Google normally gives Western culture's version of it. But i am curious as to how experienced married couples who have gone through ups and downs in their marriage view this issue.

What type of advice would you give, if a young couple says 1 party wants it a lot more than the other? How does compromise look in those situations? What happens if neither are able to compromise (keyword is able - meaning they may be willing to compromise, but unable to do it)?

If sex can affect marriage, how does it affect it?

Thanks in advance for sharing your views, opinions and advice.