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Advice Wanted How much sex is enough for married couples
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TSabangmantap P
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Sep 6 2024, 01:26 PM, updated 2y ago
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To all the sifus and experienced married couples, what would you advice young married couples on sex? Must the husband (usually the case) always initiate or ask for it? Should the wife also initiate? How much sex is healthy for a young couple? Although I know that there are subjective factors like libido levels on both husband or wife, there should be an objective standard as to the average number of times deemed healthy.
Google normally gives Western culture's version of it. But i am curious as to how experienced married couples who have gone through ups and downs in their marriage view this issue.
What type of advice would you give, if a young couple says 1 party wants it a lot more than the other? How does compromise look in those situations? What happens if neither are able to compromise (keyword is able - meaning they may be willing to compromise, but unable to do it)?
If sex can affect marriage, how does it affect it?
Thanks in advance for sharing your views, opinions and advice.
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Roadwarrior1337
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Sep 6 2024, 01:30 PM
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After married will be lesser because u can’t eat chicken rice everyday
U need some variety
Some day I like fuk kien mee, some day capati
We are not design to be with one whole life. Simple as that. Some guy created a custom many moons ago and now entire human is bound to this thing called marriage
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cakoilembutgebu
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Sep 6 2024, 01:36 PM
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when it starts to become a chore instead as something u look forward to for either one of u
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littlefire
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Sep 6 2024, 01:37 PM
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Have you heard the story on why some Condom packaging quantity selling in pharmacies? 3pcs is for during teenage days can do 2~3 round per night 12pcs is for married life only 1 time/month for a year... This post has been edited by littlefire: Sep 6 2024, 01:37 PM
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soul_gamerz
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Sep 6 2024, 02:11 PM
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for me..3-4 times a week..and most of time..i'm the only who initiate it..
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cycheah
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Sep 6 2024, 05:18 PM
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it's very depends on the couple's libido. if wife want 1 month once... while husband want 2 - 3 times per week... the marriage is quite dangerous you know
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matrix88
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Sep 6 2024, 05:20 PM
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QUOTE(cycheah @ Sep 6 2024, 05:18 PM) it's very depends on the couple's libido. if wife want 1 month once... while husband want 2 - 3 times per week... the marriage is quite dangerous you know can always go outside and release or look for your 5 finger.
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cycheah
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Sep 6 2024, 05:29 PM
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QUOTE(matrix88 @ Sep 6 2024, 05:20 PM) can always go outside and release or look for your 5 finger. if you are married or have experienced with sex, you know you can't go back to Ms. 5. Ms 5 can't satisfy you anymore
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vaksin
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Sep 6 2024, 05:31 PM
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try to get 1-2 times a year after 12 years married. if wife don't give, try look for a sub-wife.
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matrix88
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Sep 6 2024, 05:34 PM
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QUOTE(cycheah @ Sep 6 2024, 05:29 PM) if you are married or have experienced with sex, you know you can't go back to Ms. 5. Ms 5 can't satisfy you anymore what to do if you wife dont service you? ms 5 is foc else go out and pay lo.
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ahjia2121 P
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Sep 6 2024, 05:36 PM
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use hand more interesting
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cfa28
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Sep 6 2024, 05:51 PM
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QUOTE(littlefire @ Sep 6 2024, 01:37 PM) Have you heard the story on why some Condom packaging quantity selling in pharmacies? 3pcs is for during teenage days can do 2~3 round per night 12pcs is for married life only 1 time/month for a year...  you forgot that after more than 10 years of marriage and say 2 kids, men will revert back to the 3 piece condom cos s3x only happens on ABC Anniversary Birthday Christmas
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cycheah
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Sep 6 2024, 06:07 PM
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QUOTE(matrix88 @ Sep 6 2024, 05:34 PM) what to do if you wife dont service you? ms 5 is foc else go out and pay lo. if husband maruah tebal than great wall how? must be isteri's job to settle for him?
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matrix88
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Sep 6 2024, 06:25 PM
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QUOTE(cycheah @ Sep 6 2024, 06:07 PM) if husband maruah tebal than great wall how? must be isteri's job to settle for him?  anything money can settle is not a problem, go outside find another spot to shoot la.
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kesvani
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Sep 6 2024, 11:46 PM
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QUOTE(cycheah @ Sep 6 2024, 05:29 PM) if you are married or have experienced with sex, you know you can't go back to Ms. 5. Ms 5 can't satisfy you anymore Sometimes hands feel more satisfy than real sex
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Cubalagi
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Sep 7 2024, 10:56 AM
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Jordan Peterson advice is once a week to nourish a healthy relationship.
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hksgmy
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Sep 7 2024, 04:16 PM
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QUOTE(cfa28 @ Sep 6 2024, 05:51 PM) you forgot that after more than 10 years of marriage and say 2 kids, men will revert back to the 3 piece condom cos s3x only happens on ABC Anniversary Birthday Christmas You are a man of deep and prodigious wisdom
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cycheah
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Sep 9 2024, 09:07 AM
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QUOTE(kesvani @ Sep 6 2024, 11:46 PM) Sometimes hands feel more satisfy than real sex if you have great sex, probably you wont feel that day. if you meet a dead fish... then Ms. five would be more satisfy
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giftfre
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Sep 9 2024, 09:16 AM
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Ok,now i understood why many people remain as single and unmarried. They can switch partner any time if one or more criteria had met.
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whphon
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Sep 9 2024, 09:19 AM
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QUOTE(Roadwarrior1337 @ Sep 6 2024, 01:30 PM) After married will be lesser because u can’t eat chicken rice everyday U need some variety Some day I like fuk kien mee, some day capati We are not design to be with one whole life. Simple as that. Some guy created a custom many moons ago and now entire human is bound to this thing called marriage guys is stills a human, things will get boring. is just time factor
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