QUOTE(haya @ Aug 8 2024, 04:41 PM)
Maybe in the future, will have mass burial program in condo area.Mati pun mahal, And they wonder why people dun want kids
Mati pun mahal, And they wonder why people dun want kids
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Aug 8 2024, 05:09 PM
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Aug 8 2024, 05:46 PM
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QUOTE(9m2w @ Aug 8 2024, 05:38 PM) Technically yes Let's say parents religious but kids closeted atheist, when parents die the kids do all the ceremonies?But 3 day wake costs, elaborate ceremonies including prayers during wake, good feng shui place for columbarium add all up and you get an unnecessary bomb. |
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Aug 8 2024, 05:47 PM
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QUOTE(loserguy @ Aug 8 2024, 04:04 PM) The problem is not you not caring about your own funeral. Headache onlyi if u wan bangala. I see someone said apa faktual type c like he live in all chinese hsehold. Spouting nonsense like shit.The problem is can you throw your daddy and mummy into sea, river, space, etc. When it comes to your turn, the headache is on your kids not you. The money comes from your kids not from you. Those with headache is those with no money but wan everything fancy. My unker die..funeral normal no fancy cremated ashes buy cheapest place. Nothing fancy nothing expensive. Not only my unker..tons of ppl i saw passed away all type c nothing fancy nothing expensive just simple funeral cremation etc |
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Aug 8 2024, 05:49 PM
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QUOTE(dogbert_chew @ Aug 8 2024, 04:57 PM) Why not ? It will be difficult when the time comes. Guilt, sadness whatever. I've already discussed my funeral arrangements with my kids and reminded them to claim death benefits from epf too. Maybe an easy way of thinking will be this: if it were your father/mother, will you be willing to? even if they told you to go ahead. Probably the only way to force it will be to put it into your will lol, throw me into the sea or else you get nothing lol. |
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Aug 8 2024, 05:51 PM
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QUOTE(party @ Aug 8 2024, 05:47 PM) Headache onlyi if u wan bangala. I see someone said apa faktual type c like he live in all chinese hsehold. Spouting nonsense like shit. I already mentioned before, the fella that died couldn't care less lol. The only problem is the family.Those with headache is those with no money but wan everything fancy. My unker die..funeral normal no fancy cremated ashes buy cheapest place. Nothing fancy nothing expensive. Not only my unker..tons of ppl i saw passed away all type c nothing fancy nothing expensive just simple funeral cremation etc |
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Aug 8 2024, 05:58 PM
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QUOTE(loserguy @ Aug 8 2024, 05:49 PM) It will be difficult when the time comes. Guilt, sadness whatever. Seriously, you need to think of death as a natural event and not something to avoid.Maybe an easy way of thinking will be this: if it were your father/mother, will you be willing to? even if they told you to go ahead. Probably the only way to force it will be to put it into your will lol, throw me into the sea or else you get nothing lol. My dad talked to me before he died and I threw his ashes into South China Sea. Told my kids just offer my body as a cadaver after any organs can be donated. Then dispose anywhere, eg plant fertilizer. Must live life to the fullest and spend time with loved ones. After death, the body is no longer important. romuluz777, Garysydney, and 2 others liked this post
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Aug 8 2024, 06:24 PM
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QUOTE(dogbert_chew @ Aug 8 2024, 05:58 PM) Seriously, you need to think of death as a natural event and not something to avoid. Good for you.My dad talked to me before he died and I threw his ashes into South China Sea. Told my kids just offer my body as a cadaver after any organs can be donated. Then dispose anywhere, eg plant fertilizer. Must live life to the fullest and spend time with loved ones. After death, the body is no longer important. The problem isn't the old guy. As I have repeated many times, the old guy is gone, the end. No post credits scene. What happens after is of no consequence to him. The problem is with the family. » Click to show Spoiler - click again to hide... « Unfortunately, we don't live in a vacuum, people and kids can be cruel and insensitive. If you can handle it that's great. Even better if you have trained your kids to handle it with grace. dogbert_chew liked this post
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Aug 8 2024, 06:43 PM
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QUOTE(h4r8_kIlLeR @ Aug 8 2024, 05:46 PM) Let's say parents religious but kids closeted atheist, when parents die the kids do all the ceremonies? Usually will do unless charsiew. My grandparents also I go with the flow. when my mom passed as the eldest I had to lead the prayers not that I understood what they were chanting kek. More for keeping relatives happy than anything. h4r8_kIlLeR liked this post
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Aug 8 2024, 07:06 PM
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QUOTE(h4r8_kIlLeR @ Aug 8 2024, 05:46 PM) Let's say parents religious but kids closeted atheist, when parents die the kids do all the ceremonies? I will do it for my parents, anyway parents got simpan banyak duit for their own burials.As for me, sila ambil body buat medic students practise bedah bedah. dogbert_chew and h4r8_kIlLeR liked this post
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Aug 8 2024, 07:10 PM
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People are buying lots in Nirvana and reselling them like properties nowadays...
ayamz got see the agent before when follow them go visit outlet... they so excited to show... me this is theirs new home later on... topkek.. and show me another the agent bought.. say this is for 'investment'. will sell later for higher price to whom want the lot... Ppl dying is gonna be a very good business in years to come as we're moving towards an aging society... making money from the dead is gonna be very profitable... |
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Aug 8 2024, 07:36 PM
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» Click to show Spoiler - click again to hide... « TLDR - convert to Islam before dead. burial cheap2. |
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Aug 8 2024, 07:52 PM
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type c kawin n mati need to be grand
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Aug 8 2024, 07:56 PM
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I think do what Type I do. Sebar kat singai etc settle
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Aug 8 2024, 07:58 PM
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just donate.
https://helpdesk.mysejahtera.malaysia.gov.m...ra-application- This post has been edited by Phoenix_KL: Aug 8 2024, 07:59 PM |
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Aug 8 2024, 08:03 PM
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Aug 8 2024, 08:05 PM
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unker long plan go klang river and die there,
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Aug 8 2024, 08:08 PM
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Aug 8 2024, 08:39 PM
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huat ah
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Aug 8 2024, 09:01 PM
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Srs question
Ekceli why y'all need to spend a lot in death ah? Is there some sort of objective goal behind it? |
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Aug 8 2024, 09:08 PM
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