kalo ikut tour then memang la kena ikut - takkan satu bas nak tunggu kau seorang..

BUT if you going with fam/frens, then amboi!! senang lenang je ko label your travel companion toxic ya. You know..if it were to be viewed from their perspective, to them, you are the toxic one (ha! kan dah terasa, sedap kan?) In your mind you tolerate them macam you yg hero, but you have no idea how much they putting up with your pattern pun

So if you nak tido then ko tido je la, let them wake up 5am go do what they want, you can meet/rendezvous with them later (plan ahead la, like the night before), no harm no foul, you might miss out on a few excursions/meals with them, but you get what you want and they get what they want.

End of the day, you jangan pulak komplen kecam why tak tunggu you, why tak ajak you, why you left out sini sana.. you yang nak rilek, so you rilek la

For you, it might be a trip you can revisit again another time, but it may not be so for them. So let go of that "toxic" victim mentality, and enjoy your travels.

reverse the below

and you have a never ending cycle of finger pointing/victim-blaming what a holiday indeed

in short:- plan ahead(like the night before, discuss la what you guys are doing the next day), that way it sets/make the boundaries(?) clear and mutual respect will do everyone some good

safe travels, and have a memorable one! you never know when you will be travelling with the same folks again, so keep that small bit in mind and appreciate/cherish the company you have