QUOTE(amboi_asamboi @ Jul 15 2024, 01:12 PM)
Since u r already here, just tell a bit of what happened?
Maybe we can help u to see through the murky water?
honestly i dont wan anything to do with him anymore. He came to Malaysia 28 years ago kosong (no paspot no visa), got married to my mother had me. He used my mother name to take out loan, credit card whatsoever. My mom was only 22 that time, she also scared if say no he wil lleave us. Father is playboy kaki perempuan, abuse the credit card under my mother name to take girls to genting and sleep around. He use my grandmother (mom’s mom) name and also my uncle (moms brother) to take out credit loan. Everyone trusted him. Reason he want to do business. He lied to everyone saying he malaysian. Turns out use fake ic. Marry near thai border never register for marriage. Legal in islam but not in eyes of malaysia. He refuse to register me to jpn previously and only got registered at jpn at age 5 bcoz me want to start tadika. That is when kantoi he use fake ic and why he so scared to go jpn. When register also my mom went with his ic, dunno how she did it but thank god manage to register me if not i am stateless. I dont have his name on my name but i was named after his grandfather.
My mom said he kaki perempuan all around, mom never told me about this she only told me a few days ago after having a mental breakdown about my father. Why? Because we just found out my mom is now bankrupt. We thought she only got blacklisted but turns out bankrupt because of my father. My father joli all credit card loan and everything is up to 100k and my mom has to pay. My mom reach out to my father but he keeps on saying he will pay but never pay. Bare in mind he is now rich. Have money, remarried lives in bungalow even bought house in dubai. He owns a few company already. Everything from my mother. He was empty before meeting my mother my mother is the one who help him build up his business and once he success he cheated and ceraikan my mom just like that. My mom said she saw him with other woman in the car that my mom bought. She kejar him with another car and caught at highway. My father cerai her at the roadside so he could be with the perempuan simpanan.
So pissed off after hearing. Now he already rich doesnt want to pay back? Not just that he also kedekut. I am not the type of person yang so entittled want money all the time. I grow up with my mom susah because my mom name blacklisted so susah to even buy house or car. We never buy car. My father give us second hand car that always break down and mom had to keep on paying half salary to pay for repair. He is also so kedekut. He force me study law and when time to pay yuran always complain as if i am a burden to him. Bagi duit belanja also so little (rm 200, sometimes rm 500) expect me to live in kl. that money is to pay for my motor, my fuel, my makan money, my maintenance money, my shopping money. I never complain because im not an ungrateful child. Instead i work part time. My mom also very susah, i work part time i help her pay some bill give money. I work sampai 3 part time job ti help support my mom. My mom also only have spm so work as normal clerk only get paid rm 2k, boss always potong gaji no reason and she always kena maki at work eventhough not her fault. She cannot change job because she said so hard to find job, she also already old almost 50.
Meanwhile my father enjoy here and therw with new wife and his new children, buying whatever they want. So me and my mom marah. Not because we mata duitan but because we went through shit because of him. If my mom is not bankrupt, we wont be this susah. Nak beli kereta kenot, nak beli rumah also kenot, we have to keep on paying the HUTANG that HE MADE. Not enough money. So i despise him so much.
Mom wants to buat haji/umrah after kelaur duit kwsp but thing is she xannot leave country. My mom ask my father nicely only to clear her name. My mom said she wont take any money just to pay her name thats all but no, he marah2 and keep on saying he will pay later. He has been saying he wants to clear her name from blacklist since 2010, up until now nothing. Mom had bad mental breakdown and ahe said the only reason she let him use her name back then because she is scared he is going to leave her and me, and im only a small child. She also scared my father will take me. She is only 23 back then, my age. I pity her so so much. If only i was never born she wont have to go through this. I feel bad. Im helping my mom now. But at the same time i hate and despise my father. Having carried his grandfather name makes me pissed off. I wm not going to carry his name. I want nothing to do with him.
Jul 15 2024, 12:02 PM, updated 2y ago
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