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 Looking for a potential gf, M4F

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Takudan
post May 16 2024, 10:40 PM

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There's a right place for this: https://forum.lowyat.net/topic/932613/
If you want to expand your network further, try dating apps

But since you post in srs k, I assume you're open to advice?
I'd suggest you to open up more in terms of age. Young girls have less, so they're more likely to look for men with more to compensate, and I guess it's also my personal bias that younger generation these days are more materialistic 🤷‍♀️ older single women tend to have more themselves, less choosy and more mature, I think no harm getting to know one as long as it's not too far off...

Also, I think it's good you're self aware of your problems, but laying it all out in an advertisement of yourself is self sabotaging. Let others be the judge to see if they like who you are, while you work on yourself. When you meet up 1:1 avoid talking yourself down like, "hey I'm poor and have nothing to offer" cuz if you do that, it's almost as if you're telling the ladies that they're stupid to choose to be with you. Perhaps you may wonder, "just being honest, isn't that good?"... Yes, but there's a good and bad time to be honest.
❌ Telling others you're socially awkward before you even meet, is helping them paint a bad first impression of you.
✔️ Telling others you want kids, help to filter out those who don't, so you don't waste each others' time.

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