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 "Nice Guys Do Indeed Finish Last"

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SUSDrifter
post Oct 31 2007, 10:35 PM, updated 19y ago

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Sure, girls always talk about wanting to hook up with sincere, humble, nice guys who are romantic, caring and giving to their every whims and fancies (like Kenny). But more often than not, they end up with some sweet-talking, arrogant, egomaniacal jerk who they're attracted to because they appear strong, confident and dominating (like Robbie).

And there's no better indicator for confidence than arrogance.


http://www.kennysia.com/archives/2007/10/is_it_true_that.php




Many of them claim they just want to date a nice guy,but when presented with such a specimen, they say irrational,confusing things such as "oh, he's too nice to date or he would be a good boyfriend but he's not for me" or "he already puts up with so much from me, I couldn't possibly ask him out!" or the most frustrating of all: "No, it would ruin our friendship".

Yet, they continue to lament the lack of datable men in the world, and they expect their too-nice-to-date male friends to sympathize and apologize for the men that are jerks. Sorry, guys, girls like that are beyond my ability to fathom. I can't figure out why the connection breaks down between what they say (I want a nice guy!) and what they do (I'm going to sleep with this complete ass now!). But one thing I can do, is say that the nice-guy-finishes-last phenomenon doesn't last forever.

There are definitely many girls who grow out of that train of thought and realize they should be dating the nice guys, not taking them for granted. The tricky part is finding those girls, and even trickier, finding the ones that are single. =P

This is a tribute to the nice guys.The nice guys that finish last, that never become more than friends, that endure hours of whining and b****ing about what assholes guys are,while disapproving the very point.

This is dedicated to those guys who always provide a shoulder to lean on but restrain themselves to tentative hugs, those guys who hold open doors and give reassuring pats on the back and sit patiently outside the changing room at department stores...

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post Oct 31 2007, 10:38 PM

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It's in women's genetic code that they like to be dominated by strong men.

Blame it on god.
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post Oct 31 2007, 10:49 PM

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zzzzzzzz

Dont listen to this blog-attention-whore.

There was a thread about "Nice Guys" a few months back. Try to find and dig it up.
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post Oct 31 2007, 11:00 PM

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Hehe.. yeah sad but true.

Girls label me to be very gentlemen / nice guys.

But they like guys more leng chai or in their words more "man" .
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post Oct 31 2007, 11:01 PM

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post Nov 1 2007, 12:14 AM

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nah it's not true all girls like to be dominated by men.. what else strong men? hahaha i like to dominate.. not be dominated
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QUOTE(PeNNyPupZ @ Nov 1 2007, 12:14 AM)
nah it's not true all girls like to be dominated by men.. what else strong men? hahaha i like to dominate.. not be dominated
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post Nov 1 2007, 12:40 AM

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I appreciate good guys sad.gif
don't generalize. I don't ever use my friends to get my way with things..
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post Nov 1 2007, 01:03 AM

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QUOTE(spunkberry @ Nov 1 2007, 12:40 AM)
I appreciate good guys sad.gif
don't generalize. I don't ever use my friends to get my way with things..
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Too bad, girls killed all those good guys.
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post Nov 1 2007, 08:09 AM

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As a Nice Guy let me say something:

It doesn't matter whether other ppl see us as finishing last, what is important is that the girl, who comes into our lives, knows what she's getting, and (probably) will stick to you through thick and thin.

As a Nice Guy, the important thing is that you give her all the love you can, and every time that love is requieted, you feel on top of the world.

If life was a bus route, the girl is the bus, and the guy is the Last Stop. She won't be goin' anywhere once she ends up with you.

Happy Together, The End.

QUOTE(Gr3yL3gion81 @ Nov 1 2007, 01:03 AM)
Too bad, girls killed all those good guys.
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The weak will die. Nice Guys usually turn to the Dark Side, but the strongest are those who believe in themselves, and stick to who they truly are. Just don't fall in love with a SPAM
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post Nov 1 2007, 08:35 AM

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QUOTE(vey99 @ Nov 1 2007, 08:09 AM)
As a Nice Guy let me say something:

It doesn't matter whether other ppl see us as finishing last, what is important is that the girl, who comes into our lives, knows what she's getting, and (probably) will stick to you through thick and thin.

As a Nice Guy, the important thing is that you give her all the love you can, and every time that love is requieted, you feel on top of the world.

If life was a bus route, the girl is the bus, and the guy is the Last Stop. She won't be goin' anywhere once she ends up with you.

Happy Together, The End.
The weak will die. Nice Guys usually turn to the Dark Side, but the strongest are those who believe in themselves, and stick to who they truly are. Just don't fall in love with a SPAM
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u r 18??????
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post Nov 1 2007, 09:04 AM

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A song for all nice guy out there.

側田 好人

若談樣子 不會叫好 不算最討好
但我的內在美 不夠味道 哪足以自豪
談為人 當然好 雙手也好抱
無奈獨有伴侶問前路
沒有想陪同鄰家男孩跳舞
唯獨當我師徒

人人親近我 無人爭奪我
無人關懷是誰大平賣親和
平凡像我路過 十個似我 情敵實在太多
人人鼓勵我 無人傾慕我
常常激勵別人盡情熱戀事後遺下我
像毒咒 無人愛我 別嚇我

並無自欺 所有老死 只配作知己
願意跟我細數戀愛挫折 抱住我會死
談完情 拖好手 都將我拋棄
從來沒理會我喜與悲
是那麼平凡仍可以來鬥氣
談情令我心死 由得我死

人人親近我 無人爭奪我
無人關懷是誰大平賣親和
平凡像我路過 十個似我
你管不到那麼多
天都不愛我 立心孤立我
平凡的人若提及情份便顯得不配麼
難道我看不到現況正是結果

由得我 無人爭奪我
無人關懷是誰大平賣親和
平凡像我路過 十個似我 情敵實在太多
天都不理我 令我想清楚
感情是來自由弱者所寫的悲歌
事實上為什麼不拍到拖 說穿了我不美 信我
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post Nov 1 2007, 09:05 AM

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"The tricky part is finding those girls, and even trickier, finding the ones that are single. =P"


TS, u looking for me?? brows.gif

oh, but 1st of all...how old r u??
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post Nov 1 2007, 09:24 AM

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QUOTE(vey99 @ Nov 1 2007, 08:09 AM)
The weak will die. Nice Guys usually turn to the Dark Side, but the strongest are those who believe in themselves, and stick to who they truly are. Just don't fall in love with a SPAM
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Darwinism.

Well, we could always thanks nice guys, you might get the girls in the end, but our genetic codes already passed to them by then.

Thanks for raising our(bad guys) kids notworthy.gif
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post Nov 1 2007, 09:26 AM

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Now that explains the matchmaking scenario hmm.gif

Real life story.

Mom : This guy ah, engineer. Working in a big company. Drive beamer. Got a few houses collect rental. Got semi D at xxx. Very good guy ah..
Me : Oh, how old is he again?
Mom : 32 years old
Me : And you said he never paktor before?
Mom : Yealor, such a nice guy. Let mom intro to you lah..
Me : Is he gay?
Mom : ...

Nice guy always get misunderstood. Now I feel so guilty. sad.gif
7chai
post Nov 1 2007, 09:28 AM

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QUOTE(suiteng @ Nov 1 2007, 09:26 AM)
Now that explains the matchmaking scenario hmm.gif

Real life story.

Mom : This guy ah, engineer. Working in a big company. Drive beamer. Got a few houses collect rental. Got semi D at xxx. Very good guy ah..
Me : Oh, how old is he again?
Mom : 32 years old
Me : And you said he never paktor before?
Mom : Yealor, such a nice guy. Let mom intro to you lah..
Me : Is he gay?
Mom : ...

Nice guy always get misunderstood. Now I feel so guilty. sad.gif
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I guess u are now misunderstood still, this kind of guy doesn't bother to dig gal anymore. Is more like gals go dig him. laugh.gif
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QUOTE(7chai @ Nov 1 2007, 09:28 AM)
I guess u are now misunderstood still, this kind of guy doesn't bother to dig gal anymore. Is more like gals go dig him.  laugh.gif
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Not all girls will dig rich guys dry.gif
7chai
post Nov 1 2007, 09:32 AM

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QUOTE(suiteng @ Nov 1 2007, 09:32 AM)
Not all girls will dig rich guys dry.gif
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of coz not all, but most mar. laugh.gif
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post Nov 1 2007, 09:40 AM

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QUOTE(suiteng @ Nov 1 2007, 09:32 AM)
Not all girls will dig rich guys dry.gif
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I demand proof.
7chai
post Nov 1 2007, 09:42 AM

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QUOTE(Gr3yL3gion81 @ Nov 1 2007, 09:40 AM)
I demand proof.
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I can tell u that suiteng herself will neva dig rich guy, but do suiteng count as a gal or not then we have to think about that. laugh.gif

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