That’s the problem with a lot of men. Their sense of self worth is tied to their jobs or careers.

most but not all, you must understand the context.

some men carry the frustrated depression mentality till years, and while the woman's career goes to new high, the man become dengki, making fun at her career progression, and expect her to pay for everything since 'she earns more now'. so this continue for years, he continues to feel defeated.

if you are the woman, do you want a man like this?

see, that part again. Not sure why, somewomen, has this ego in them.

you folks observe and let me know of this later. Women who cant be boss in their career, try to be bossy at home.

Passive at work but boss at home.

Ironically, the ones who is boss at work, is more passive at home.

And they believe only their way only works, and cant try something else.

Hence, even before married, regardless which religion u are, best to hang on at home and observe how they handle day to day chores and things, to actually get a knowledge how they deal with life situations and this is not even a actual crisis. watching movies, going out to event, doesn't tell crap about ur partner.

At times i think, go travel and then purposely make an issue, ( eg simply act and say( in a prank way) lose their passport, and see how they behave and react, maybe simply go all the way to foreign embassy and last minute also discovered it back. ) to understand one's character.

need to throw these question, if 1 day u lose ur job, how are u gonna handle it? deal with it, solution?

Although words can be a lip service, but it's a start to gauge how their brain is wired.