I'm married and childless as a orphan long time ago since age of 9 to be honest i have no experience how the life look like if divorce

But i can tell you how the feel like when parents after divorce

I'm abandoned from my own family if you ask me how i feel i have no idea as a children i only know that a 360 degree change literally become 天生天养 other than orphanage is my temporary roof and shelter

I only know my parents divorce because of my father business and stock failed until no way to turning back probably due to greedy that all i can describe

Probably children nowadays have a better life than me compared to last Time if parents nowadays after divorce

All i can say once you have the planning tak kisah you divorce or not, keep the children or not once your heart no longer there just let it go faster faster rather than create more harm .

Dave Ramsey, my fav guru talks about successful marriage:

Couples have a high probability of a successful marriage if they agree on four things, in detail, before the big day -
1. Kids
2. Money
3. Religion
4. In-laws.

Nope only 3 and half year in srjkc, not even finished my primary school
Until today i masih pakai bahasa rojak 😂