I might be going to divorce next month,
After our kid birthday celebration,

No 3rd person issue, just that we cannot understand each other and decided to stop instead of continue & make it worse.

Different upbringing is the main issue i guess.

My kid 4 years old,

She filed for divorced since march, i tried to postpone and fix for our kid, but everything i do she thinks that i had bad intention towards her, like wanting to get the kid custody from her,

this week i have been sending my kid to playschool, but today she is sending,

somehow when driving i was daydreaming and turned up at my kid playschool (it was just infront of my house),

she saw me & accuse me not trusting her to send the kid to school,

All sorts of things, im also tired already, if possible i also would like to tahan until my kid is bigger 7-9 years old or so.

I even went to see psychologist for this,
One of the advise, the psychologist says that she deals with a lots of kids too, and for kids in troubled family,

They actually feels better if their parent seperate and take care of the kid together rather than both parent staying & fighting all the time.

Yeah, thats what i think

I detect a little bit during engagement time, my first mistake was thinking people can change,

Not forced marriage but kind continued the marriage with sunk cost fallacy

She got pregnant 1 month into the marriage and most of her hatred/anger towards started since we had the baby as we were brought up differently and i want to raise the kid my way while she wants to follow her father way,

And i was also mostly busy working to provide for the family during the first few years (covid time & stuff)

Yeah, i have never thought of it from that angle before this, before this i think the best thing to do for my kid is to try to save the marriage,

Now i think maybe its better to divorce and take care of the kid separately.