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any divorcee here?
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Perla
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 May 8 2024, 10:06 AM
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I'm not a divorcee but have several friends who went through divorce.
Personally I think divorce is not necessarily a bad thing. Sure, at first it might feel like you've failed but for me sometimes things just don't work out for you and your ex partner. Eventually you'll see the bright side of it.
Most of my friends got divorce either their ex-husbands cheated on them, or just financially didn't provide enough for their family. But they're now much happier with their lives and a couple of them has remarried.
Recently a friend of mine told me she want a divorce and will proceed after she safely deliver her first baby. Apparently her husband changed after they got married, he had been obsessing with his ex-wife and he's barely home, he's always at his ex-wife's place with an excuse that he's spending time with his children.
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Perla
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May 8 2024, 12:06 PM
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QUOTE(abhipraaya @ May 8 2024, 10:35 AM) What a way to start her life. Imagine delivering the baby and getting a divorce. Yeah, it was just tragic. Some people would consider to give some time for the partner to correct their mistakes, etc. But her husband refused to talk to her regarding his attitude. The other day they were arguing and he stormed out from their house, got into his car and drove off, while my friend was trying to open the front passenger door. He stepped on the gas and my friend was dragged a little bit and then fell down. Badly injured with cuts and bruises. She was 8 months pregnant at that time. Dude claimed he didn't noticed she was on the side of the car. I was just told she delivered her baby this morning btw. |
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Perla
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May 8 2024, 12:12 PM
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QUOTE(Lembu Goreng @ May 8 2024, 10:50 AM) Correct, I have friends who have divorced and as far as I can tell a divorce isn’t the end of a happy marriage, but an end to a bad one. One friend told me when he broke the news to his kids, they were pretty relaxed about it because many of their classmates have divorced parents too. It seems divorce is more acceptable, and ‘normal’ these days Yeah, especially if it's amicable. Either way there's no reason to stay in a marriage if both of you couldn't stand each other/have issues. People back then stayed because they want to save face, financial reasons and because they worry about the kids. I came from a dysfunctional family, my parents barely tolerated each other and they still do at the age of 64. I always believed that they'd be happier if they had gotten divorce. My siblings and I too would be happier, I believe. |
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Perla
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May 8 2024, 12:21 PM
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QUOTE(gashout @ May 8 2024, 12:11 PM) CF 988 also has one woman call. the husband was very romantic when they were dating. but i think hunter got his prey. 180 degree changed. now having relationship with 2 women... and he doesnt know she knows. CF asks her to decide what is her bet she is willing to lose. get prepared. and she is scared of him even when he is the wrong one. so we never know one true self even after married. always keep some love for yourself. never all for the other person. That's always the case. Poor that woman, hope she finds happiness soon. Agreed on what you said. Love others but love yourself first. |
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