as i read your reply on the another thread, seems you over pampered your wife to be housewife but.... do nothing? you didn't mention whether you have kiddos or not but I believe she have plenty of time to do house work.

2ndly, the one who should jealous should be your bil 1st, not your wife

if i were you, if she need 2 days some peace of mind in air bnb, i wont bother to pujuk her back. that's part of your wife's family, if like this also wanna jealous, better your wife bring them out than you lo, the most you become driver and sip your cola

anyway, sorry to say, you married your wife despite knowing she is being a princess, no one can help you on this except you coz we don't know what she likes and dislikes. good luck bro

but if you need an ear... we are all ears for you

divorce is a big matter to decide... not just hey lets divorce then be single again. you have to consider the time you need to spend to go counseling, to the court, you have to fight for Alimony and your property(ies). or you have to stay separate for 2 years (with prove) before filing divorce and whatever procedures you need to go thru.

sorry to say, in a relationship, nice to say we are helping and supporting each other, not nice to say, we are taking advantage of each other. from what i read, she have taken lots of advantage being a housewife without doing anything and you financially support her. Have to work have to do chores, luckily no children yet, else you will be a dead man in 3 - 5 years. to be fair, we still have to listen her side of story.

talk is easy, but execution is always the most difficult. there are times you need to follow up and encouragement to ensure changes is make. nothing is easy, seriously. We still need to compromise here and there to make changes. If you still cherish her, then make a change for both of you, probably a small step at a time.

you can try talk to redracer2004 since he have his share of experience.

oh well, what is done just let it past. let her have some cool down period in BKK before she decide her next step. Probably let your in law comfort her. give her a call after few days or a week.

If you are really stressed about on this matter and have trouble to rest/ sleep, better to have a time out; go chill with friends or massage. Massage always helps me sleep better, especially those use oil massage and rub your back till very warm... i wouldn't recommend you go for alcohol/ beer, except you have friends go together.