Reminds me of when I was about 18, I had a chat with this uncle. He was a friend punya bapak punya kawan. So he was thinking of retiring now that he has his little pot of gold and his kids all post college already. So I was like wah nice lah uncle.....you have your kids to look after you. His response was fuck no lah boy......I work this fucking hard to have enough money to hire a full time nurse to look after me if I am weak. You want a grumbling angry kid who is pissed he or she has to wipe your ass or some young sweet chick with soft hands being paid well to do so?