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de.sengal
post Apr 25 2024, 07:31 PM

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My wife and I, we are the one decided to have children. We are also lucky enough to conceive both of my daughters when we want them.
For us, we have almost everything we want at that time and we decided what is more worth it is to share everything your life and wealth with someone you love. If you already instill the thought of children is not a burden but a form of way for you to share your joy and life, it would really make your life nurturing them a whole new experiences. I admit sometimes it is challenging but at the same time you would learn a lot of thing.

And early this year, we decided to add one more to share all of our joy and life.
de.sengal
post Apr 26 2024, 06:51 AM

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QUOTE(liwern @ Apr 26 2024, 05:17 AM)
And do you both take care without any help like nanny or day care?
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Daytime my parent will take care of them. My father is the one insist us to send my child to them as he said last time he miss out the time me and my siblings grew up. I will send my kids to school in the morning and in the afternoon, my parent will fetch them from school. At 5pm, my wife will take back the kids.

QUOTE(gashout @ Apr 26 2024, 05:26 AM)
Congrats on the new baby 😍
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Thanks bro. We plan to prove the theory on how to get a boy or a girl. Let see how it will turn out.
de.sengal
post Apr 26 2024, 04:25 PM

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QUOTE(Bananahead @ Apr 26 2024, 09:46 AM)
No offense, but what I have seen so far among my friends with daughters, all 8 of these couples, the husbands are afraid or should I put it in a more polite way "respectful" of their wives.
As for other couples where the husbands are not as respectful of their wives (myself included), somehow tend to have sons instead.

I would also love to know how to conceive a daughter, if you have anything to share.
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None taken bro. The scenario is not appllied to me.
The theory is behind on how long the male and female sperm live and how fast it swim. The male sperm will swim faster but female sperm will have longer life. You can search more towards this. In my current two childs we did try to conceive 3 days before ovalution to increase the possibilities. In the coming child, we will try to conceive from the ovulation day and 3 days after.

I am more on science and data guy so not really believe those theory that said wife is stronger than husband and etc.

This post has been edited by de.sengal: Apr 26 2024, 04:26 PM
de.sengal
post Apr 27 2024, 09:42 AM

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QUOTE(liwern @ Apr 27 2024, 06:16 AM)
See that's why you can cope. You only take care of them less than half a day every day.
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Huh?
That is normal I think for most of parents what do you expect? The kids will go to kindergarten and school from 7.30am until 3.30pm. Maybe you can share what is your routine which is different from others? Unless your kids home schooling and your wife is a housewife. Even housewife, the kids will still be in school for half the day.

This post has been edited by de.sengal: Apr 27 2024, 09:51 AM

 

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