if you think dating apps is trying to suck your money where your view can be legit because only top 5% of good looking guys get access by the females on there.

If you think you're ugly, why would you force yourself to compete on the internet with no possible advantages?

Just look at outside, i havent seen any guys approach girls in public places ie mall regularly. You said you're a salesperson, you will have advantage by talking to random strangers on the street

This post has been edited by -mystery-: Apr 18 2024, 11:42 PM

It's pointless to see this kind of thread
any actions produce results? No.

ive friend who goes to gym (show muscles) and hobbies
he gets regular matches and can easily ask girl to meet up and go to his place. Just shows you how disadvantageous a male is if he doesnt work on his value

Of course, my friend is very picky with which girl he wants to sleep with, but girls will just keep knocking his door

just proven another point, most girls just wanna be farked.

If you ugly n lazy to talk to girls, you're farked for most part
most girls dont approach you unless you're celebrity
having money and looks or muscle is just a passive way to attract girls

Of course, if i had all the packages i wouldnt need to spend time online i already have girls to fark 24/7

you get emotionally tired not because of external circumstances but yourself. Find your issue and dont blame outside for your inadequacy.

you can instantly feel whether someone is interested making friends. When you ask them questions they will tend to avoid answering it instead they will make sure you talk more than them.

thats typical insurance agents i encountered

2010 is the turning point for intersexual dynamics when tinder and instagram came out. As years go by, dating has become tougher. If you asked me what has happened in 2016 vs 2024, it has a subtle differences

there's different level of judgment when it comes to different races etc. Hence, an asian can easily stand out in Malaysia when he's not shy/introverted cause his soul can be free. People who are nervous or depressed are not connected to the source.

there's a subtle check when someone is listen with clarity versus listening with no options because he or she doesnt know how to game but had to be people pleasing fake listening

you engage with your heart or intuition to witness a person potential
being stubborn with the mind doesnt help
the mind can be effective at stating a certain direction or steps
but overanalyzing, is breaking the flow of life

your sixth sense will guide you when you're in present moment engaging with a person. And our mind will starting label a person whether he or she is XYZ element, and in accordance to that, we will do certain actions or find evidences to justify our original judgment is correct

Its unspoken beauty when you witness a person or matter and not judge completely (it can be difficult thing to do when a person mind is racing to nowhere)