A few lessons u can learn here:

1) People won't appreciate anything that's too available for them. You gotta make yrself scarce sometimes by having hobbies n not meeting her that often. Let her be the one looking for u.

2) Don't put all yr eggs into 1 basket. Always remember that the other party is dating several other ppl before choosing the right one to commit to

3) I know it's painful to get over someone who's not even yr partner but the thing is the pain that u're feeling now is less than the pain u'll feel if u guys really couple up n break up later. Trust me, I've been in this situation a few times n it always takes me abt a couple of days to get over it. You WILL heal eventually

You can't prevent shit from happening but u can control how u react towards it so stop blaming yrself n take this incident as a learning curve and don't repeat the same mistake next time. Good luck!

This post has been edited by parisiansky: Mar 1 2024, 09:00 AM