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 Just got rejected after 5 dates

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nihility
post Mar 2 2024, 06:14 PM

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TS, nothing wrong. I find the outcome was normal & it was one of the expected scenarios. It is the "probation" period similar to the probation period before one want to confirm a permanent staff. Even after 6 months, the employer will still think the candidate is not the suitable for role and can still request the HR to terminate the staff. Your reaction is something you need to look into, only 5 dates can inflicts such an emotional reaction - it means you have almost no tolerance to accept rejection. I would rather believe the girl did try to give it a chance but your characteristics didn't match what she was expecting. You should stop looking thing from your personal angle only but also from the opponent's angle.

This post has been edited by nihility: Mar 2 2024, 06:15 PM

 

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