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quebix
post Feb 5 2024, 11:27 AM

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depends on what u want in life.

U can only do so many things at a time.

for example, you do A, B and C, already full commitment in effort and time and concentration, focus.

If u wanna do Marriage, then need to sacrifice either A, B or C.


some people say, if they dont get married, can focus on A,B and C more. for example, career, make money etc.
if this is what u want in life, then dont get married.

but if u also want to build a family, have kids etc, then all these need attention and focus also. so it effects the amount of time u can pour into money making and career.

but if family is what u want, then go ahead.



quebix
post Feb 5 2024, 12:17 PM

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QUOTE(Imaginebreaker @ Feb 5 2024, 11:42 AM)
Lets say I do want to build a family and is really committed to this at the start. What if halfway through, I grew weaker as the relationship progresses and then think I cant do this anymore?

Some people told me if their 20-year old self had known their married life at 40 would be as it as, they would not get married if they get to redo their life.
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what have been done cant be undone.

but there is a way out.
breakup.
divorce.


one thing about human nature.
those who say they wont get married if given a chance to redo their life.
lets say they are given the chance, magically a time travel machine. or turn back time, and they dont get married.
u think they wont say, "How i wish i can have a family like my friends, i regret not getting married. "



 

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